Relationship Boosters

12/22/2025

Q & A: My mother in law doesn't like me so she asked my husband to take her out for lunch just the two of them and he went with her and left me home. I think this is so disrespectful. I would have never left him just because my mother asked me to. How should I handle this. (Of course we will answer this in Friday at 11:15 for live Q&A)

12/21/2025

When things get tense, most of us either shut down or get defensive — but curiosity changes everything. Instead of assuming the worst, ask, “What’s really going on here?” Curiosity turns conflict into connection. It’s not about winning, it’s about understanding. That’s where real healing begins.

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When tension rises, do you shut down or lean in with understanding? Book a consultation today to improve communication and connection.

12/20/2025

When you stop asking questions, you stop discovering each other. People grow, change, and evolve — so keep learning your partner. Ask how they’re really doing, what they’re dreaming of, or what’s been on their mind lately. Curiosity builds connection; assumptions build distance.

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When’s the last time you got curious about your partner again? Book a consultation today and rediscover each other deeply.

12/19/2025

In every relationship, moments will test your patience. When they do, choose grace over ego—pause before reacting. Ask questions instead of criticizing. Curiosity helps you understand your partner; ego only builds walls. Healthy love isn’t about being right—it’s about staying connected, even when it’s hard.

When was the last time you chose grace over ego in your relationship? Book a session today and rebuild understanding together.

12/18/2025

Accountability isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being honest.
It’s showing your partner that you’re willing to look in the mirror, not just point fingers.
Healthy love grows where accountability lives.

Are unhealed patterns making accountability hard in your relationship? Book a consultation today to learn how to grow, not blame.

12/18/2025

To all my "nice" people, we have to operate differently 👉🏾👉🏾DM BMW to register for Marriage Week

12/17/2025

Real love shows up when both people can admit, “I was wrong,” and choose growth over ego. That’s how trust deepens and connection lasts. Accountability isn’t punishment—it’s love in action.

Are you both willing to grow through the imperfections together? Book your consultation today and learn how to rebuild with love.

12/17/2025

I know you may be used to figuring things out, funding the solution, and fixing the issue before it becomes a problem, but this can cause a problem in relationships.

I find that too many people are trying to be helpful by making decisions that remove their partners ability to take in a burden.

Please remember that this could be very frustrating to a partner who has been robbed of the opportunity to be there for you.

Before the new year, make a commitment to ask instead of automatically removing the choice from your partner.

12/16/2025

In healthy relationships, it means saying, “I see how my actions affected you,” instead of getting defensive. It’s not about who’s right, it’s about making things right. Real love grows when both people take responsibility for creating a safe space together.

Are you ready to stop blaming and start growing in your relationship? Book your consultation today and learn real accountability.

12/16/2025

Sometimes we punish the person trying to love us because we’re still trying to protect ourselves from who hurt us.
Love after trauma means slowing down, communicating clearly, and reminding yourself: “This is new. I’m safe now.”
Don’t let old pain control new love.

Are you carrying old pain into new love? Book a consultation today to heal your triggers and love with safety again.

12/16/2025

Text 301-747-0502 for a text reminder with a link to the private room for the woman's discussion

12/16/2025