
06/11/2025
This is something I’m working through too.
In fact, I was reminded of it just the other day… so it deserves a spot here.
I caught myself spiraling over something small.
And my first instinct was to go into that all-too-familiar loop:
“Why can’t I get this right?”
“Here we go again…”
But then I paused… and asked:
“What else could be true?”
That one question helped me soften.
It reminded me that maybe I wasn’t doing something wrong, maybe I was just doing my best with what I had at the time.
Maybe there was a version of the story that wasn’t filled with pressure or shame.
It didn’t fix everything.
But it helped me come back to reality and accept it without guilt.
So I’m sharing it here in case you need the reminder too. 💛
The goal isn’t to pretend things aren’t hard.
It’s to stop making hard moments mean you’re failing, and become curious vs critical. 👊
You got this!