Individual and Couples Therapy of Texas

12/31/2025

This year, resolve to:
• argue with less damage
• repair faster
• listen without defensiveness
• choose connection over winning

Strong relationships aren’t built by avoiding conflict—they’re built by learning how to move through it together.

11/20/2025

🧠 Recognizing Autism in Couples Therapy
Autism doesn’t make relationships harder —
misunderstanding autism does.
In couples therapy, I often help partners see something important:
Sometimes what looks like “disconnection,” “lack of empathy,” or “not caring”
is actually a different communication style, sensory needs, or neurodivergent wiring that hasn’t been understood yet.
Here’s what I want couples to know 👇
✨ Autistic traits don’t equal lack of love.
Many autistic partners show care through actions, problem-solving, or consistency — not always through words or emotional expression.
✨ Direct communication is your ally.
Clear language, predictable expectations, and concrete requests can transform the relationship dynamic.
✨ Sensory differences matter.
Touch, noise, routines, and transitions can affect connection.
Understanding this can reduce so much unnecessary hurt.
✨ Emotional connection may look different — not absent.
Autistic partners often feel deeply. They may just express it in unique or less expected ways.
✨ Mutual understanding goes both ways.
It’s not about “fixing” one partner — it’s about learning each other’s nervous systems, needs, and ways of processing the world.
✨ When couples understand autism, conflict shifts.
Reactions make more sense.
Assumptions soften.
Compassion grows.
Neurodiversity doesn’t limit intimacy —
but misunderstanding can.
When couples learn each other’s wiring, connection becomes easier, safer, and more authentic. 💛

11/19/2025

Think about this next time you have conflict with your partner.

11/18/2025

💛 Let’s Talk About Humility in Couples Therapy
One of the biggest breakthroughs I see in the therapy room isn’t a perfect apology or a brilliant insight…
It’s humility.
Humility says:
“I might not be seeing the whole picture.”
“I could be wrong.”
“My partner’s experience matters, too.”
And that changes everything. 👇
✨ Humility makes space for connection.
When you’re not busy defending, you can actually listen.
Really listen.
✨ Humility cools arguments fast.
Admitting even a small part you could have handled differently defuses tension instantly.
✨ Humility makes repair possible.
You can’t apologize well if you’re still trying to win.
✨ Humility isn’t weakness.
It’s emotional maturity.
It’s courage.
It’s choosing the relationship over your ego.
✨ Humility is contagious.
When one partner softens, the other often follows.
Someone just has to go first.
In couples therapy, humility opens the door—
and everything else gets easier once you walk through it. 🧡
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11/14/2025

🔥 Let’s Talk About S*x (Yes, Your S*x Life)
Here’s the thing: couples come to therapy for all kinds of reasons…
but let’s be honest — s*x is usually somewhere on the list. 😏
And guess what?
You’re not weird. You’re not broken. You’re not “bad at relationships.”
You’re human.
Here’s what I tell my couples all the time 👇
✨ Desire doesn’t stay the same forever.
If it did, we’d all be having movie-montage s*x every night. Life isn’t a rom-com — it’s work, stress, laundry, and “wait… did we pay that bill?”
Desire dips. It rises again. Totally normal.
✨ One of you wanting s*x more? Relax.
That’s not a problem — that’s a dynamic.
And dynamics can be worked with.
(Stop Googling “Is my relationship doomed?”)
✨ Talking about s*x is way s*xier than avoiding it.
Silence kills intimacy. Honesty builds it.
Tell your partner what you like. Tell them what you don’t. Whisper it if that helps. 😉
✨ Emotional connection = better s*x.
Foreplay isn’t just touching.
It’s kindness. It’s being present.
It’s doing the dishes without being asked.
(Yes, that counts.)
✨ Pleasure is a team sport.
You both get to have needs.
You both get to have boundaries.
You both deserve to enjoy this part of your relationship.
If s*x has felt awkward, tense, or “meh” lately… that’s your sign.
Not that something’s wrong —
but that it’s time for a real conversation.
*xPositive *xy

11/13/2025

Let’s Talk About Resentment in Relationships
Resentment is one of those quiet relationship killers — it builds slowly, often unnoticed, until it starts to affect everything: your patience, affection, and even your willingness to communicate.
Here’s the truth 👇
Resentment usually grows where needs go unspoken and feelings go unheard.
✨ Common roots of resentment:
Feeling like you’re carrying more of the emotional or practical load
Not feeling appreciated or acknowledged
Avoiding hard conversations to “keep the peace”
Unresolved hurt that keeps getting pushed aside
💬 What helps:
Naming the feeling early (“I’m starting to feel resentful when…”)
Having open, non-blaming conversations about unmet needs
Making repair attempts — small acts of care that rebuild trust
Remembering you’re a team, not opponents
You can love someone deeply and still need to work through resentment.
Talking about it isn’t a sign of failure — it’s a sign of hope. 💛

11/05/2025

Intentional connection keeps love alive.
Life gets busy — work, kids, stress, endless to-do lists. Before we know it, we’re living next to each other instead of with each other.
True connection isn’t spontaneous — it’s something we choose to create. 💫
Here are a few small ways to build intentional connection every day:
💬 Put down your phone and give your full attention when your partner talks.
🕯️ Create small rituals of closeness — morning coffee together, a nightly check-in, a goodbye kiss that lasts a few seconds longer.
💖 Ask curious questions: “How are you really feeling today?”
🤝 Make time for play, laughter, and appreciation.
It’s not about grand gestures — it’s about showing up on purpose.
When couples learn to connect intentionally, the relationship feels more secure, more alive, and more deeply loved. 🌿

10/23/2025

Intimacy is the thing we all desire. Couples Therapy has the ability to create more meaningful connections that honor your relationship 💕

09/26/2025

As a couples therapist, one of the most transformative insights I offer clients is helping them understand why they love the way they do. Often, the answer lies in attachment styles—patterns we develop early in life that profoundly influence how we connect with romantic partners. Please share with your friends and loved one 😘

As a couples therapist, one of the most transformative insights I offer clients is helping them understand why they love the way they do. Often, the answer lies in attachment styles—patterns we develop early in life that profoundly influence how we connect with romantic partners.

08/11/2025

I’m genuinely so grateful for y’all letting me be a part of your lives!

05/22/2025

What needs attention in your relationship? Let’s find the peace!

04/19/2025

Anger doesn’t just stay in the mind; it has real psychological and physical effects on the body that can spill over into our relationships.