Rebecca Luebbe, MS, LPCC, EAS-C

05/08/2025

03/30/2025

What you choose to not deal with in your life, will be passed on to your children to deal with.

07/03/2024

It's important to learn the difference between what happens to us and what we do with it. The bad things that happen to us don't determine our destiny; how we respond to them does. You own your life, not someone else. Remember, it's the owner who has the rights. No one can have control over your life if you do not let them.

04/17/2024

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01/02/2024

Is keeping quiet about evil Christ-like?

Not at all! God commands us not to yield to wickedness.

“Like a muddied spring or a polluted well are the righteous who give way to the wicked.” – Proverbs 25:26

We can take a stand and “speak the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15).

Are you willing to take a stand in 2024? Feel free to share below.

01/02/2024

09/06/2023

Couples who make repair attempts are both willing to admit responsibility for their part in the conflict, and then begin the process of healing their bond. They realize their relationship is more important than the problem.

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This post is not intended to address situations of abuse; if you or someone you know is in need of help contact the National Domestic Violence hotline at 800-799-7233.

08/12/2023

Learn why you need to prioritize time for dates.

08/12/2023

Do you strive to keep the peace no matter what?

God doesn’t want you to wink at sin and give people a hall pass to do whatever they want.

Be a peacemaker, not a peacekeeper.

What’s the difference?

A peacemaker strives to create peace and attempts to reconcile things and people that are at odds with one another.

Peacekeepers strive to keep peace at all costs.

Be a peacemaker today. Remember: it’s okay to disrupt the peace to create real—and lasting—peace.

08/12/2023

You don't have the power to make your spouse understand your feelings when you have a bad day. But you can let him know you'd like him to empathize with your emotions. You can model the behavior by responding empathically to him when he has a bad day. Influence has its own power.

08/12/2023

"The key to reinvigorating fondness and admiration is to get in the habit of scanning for qualities and actions that you can appreciate. And then, let your partner know what you've observed and are grateful for."

There is a new UK version of the bestselling Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work available from Orion Publishing Group!

Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to s*x, money, religion, work, family, or anything else.
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