02/22/2026
There's an important aspect to healing that arises, especially once a person begins to become more physically healthy and regains energetic flow. There are "healing reactions", as what was stuck, stagnant and blocked beguns to surface.
It's vital for anyone working in this field to hold healthy boundaries, and to be aware of these reactions.
They are not your responsibility. Do not take them on board. Learn about them, become aware of what's actually happening, and demonstrate what it means to be healthy. You're not a dumping ground or a punching bag.
People who get into this field have a deep desire to help. Remember this: you can only share, show a way, embody it yourself. You cannot carry another. They must choose.
Emotional regulation is a skill. You cannot do it for someone else. Each individual is responsible for their own internal state, and how they choose to express it. Thinking you can absorb and fix and be responsible for another's emotional/internal state will drain you fast and cause burn out. It's also unhelpful. It doesn't offer what you wish it would, and it is disempowering.
Be a clear mirror. As a person takes ownership of their health and well-being, they will face that this also means owning their reactions, the thoughts they feed, the stories they tell themselves, all of it.
Always remember: their healing is their responsibility. Not yours.
You can share, be an example, but don't accept the paradigm of authority and follower. It's a false one, and will prevent healing in the long-term. 🙏🏻☯️🧘🏻♀️💖
You can be a supportive and loving partner, but you cannot be their therapist or their only source of happiness. Every adult is responsible for their own emotional health.
The Boundary:
* Support vs. Fixing: Offering a hand without carrying their entire load.
* Responsibility: Encouraging them to seek their own healing path.
* Self Protection: Not allowing their bad mood to dictate your entire day.
You are a partner, not a punching bag or a professional counselor.