Healing After An Affair

12/06/2025

I'm happy to have written some of the things I've learned over the years as a couple therapist. I hope this will be helpful to you...

08/06/2024

No matter how severe the conflict, there are ways to make it less destructive. Here are four suggestions.

Couples who have been together for more than a few months can usually tell when conflict is "in the air." Here are four good ways to respond that will keep the conflict from getting out of control.

07/30/2024

Lying is almost always about self-protection. Remove the need for self-protection and you create a better environment for honesty.

Lying is almost always about self-protection. Remove the need for self-protection and you remove most of the incentive for dishonesty.

07/28/2024

05/14/2024

Most of you know I've been a couple therapist for a long time. I've begun to write about what I've learned over the years. This is a sample. Join me on Substack...

Or, marriage as an existential struggle. An answer to the question of why couples have such intense arguments over dumb things?

11/06/2021

Deciding whether to stay or leave after an affair has been discovered or revealed is VERY difficult for many. For a guide to making that decision go here: https://www.healingafteranaffair.com/five-things-to-consider.html