03/27/2026
Lisbon Falls - Terry L. Tardiff, 85, passed away peacefully on March 7, 2026 at St. Mary's d'Youville Pavillion after a long journey with Alzheimer's. His loving wife Pat was by his side.
He will forever be remembered for his pleasant, outgoing personality, love of country music (Johnny Cash!), good times with friends and spirited discourse. He was first and foremost a man who was always willing to lend a hand to help others.
A farm boy from the country…
Born in Bowdoin, Maine in January of 1941, Terry was the first son to Romeo & Ginny Tardiff, the 3rd of 7 children raised on the family homestead, Echo Farm.
Growing up on the farm gave Terry the foundation of hard work, dedication and ingenuity that would serve him throughout his life- though not without a few humorous stories of a bit of mischief & mayhem thrown in for good measure with his siblings and life-long friends!
“Through these gates pass the best shipbuilders in the world.”
Terry graduated from Lisbon High School and went directly to work for Bath Iron Works in Bath, Maine. As one of the nation’s finest shipbuilders of naval destroyers in the U.S., Terry began what would be the start of a 31-year career that would take him through the Iron Works’ apprenticeship program on the ships into management, until his retirement in 1995 as the Director of Warehousing & Procurement. He also worked in areas of specialty equipment, from desalination machinery to the fabrication of custom joinery knives & sourcing unique, foreign wood species for the woodworking industry. He truly believed in the value of personal industry and the pride of a job well done.
A love built to last.
Terry met the love of his life, Pat Arsenault from Bath while in the BIW apprenticeship program. She was watching a practice of the Bath Buccaneers Drum & Bugle Corps of which Terry was a participant. They dated for a year before they were happily wed in November of 1962. They first lived on Pleasant Street in Brunswick, then moved to Lisbon Falls to begin their family near the original Tardiff homestead. They would have 5 children, including identical twins, which brought a lot of entertainment to the family in the years to come. Through many lifelong milestones (including a brief jaunt to NH), happy travels in retirement to the years-long journey through Alzheimer’s, their marriage celebrated an impressive 63 years.
A man of simple pleasures.
Terry was ever-content if his hands were busy. This dominated his personal life as well as his career. With a family of 5 children, money could be tight, but innovation & imagination reigned supreme. Terry & Pat built their own home in Lisbon Falls. He and his friend Ellie enjoyed years of building and renovating campers, including a custom truck camper and an Airstream Ambassador, received after a tree fell on it. Terry & Ellie proceeded to pound out the dents, carpet the interior shell, and enjoyed many years of camping and road trips across Canada & the U.S. including Alaska!
Terry made many life-long friends whom he loved dearly. He often hosted BBQ’s, Lobster & Clambakes and horseshoe games with friends and family. Camping and hunting were some of Terry’s favorite pastimes- he loved playing cribbage and dancing at campground events. But perhaps his most cherished pastime was spending time with his youngest sons, Aaron & Mark, on hunting excursions. Their trips to hunt deer & birds, along with ice fishing with friends have led to a life-long pursuit of these and other game for his sons and grandchildren.
A life dedicated to helping others.
Over the years, Terry enjoyed membership in many social clubs, including the Slovak Club, Left-Hand Club and Holy Trinity’s Knights of Columbus Council. He was a volunteer fireman in NH, worked the chicken BBQ at the annual Moxie Day Festival in Lisbon Falls, and was a regular fixture at Holy Trinity, doing any maintenance & odd jobs that Father Anthony might need. He was always ready to go to a neighbor’s home to help build a porch, fix a deck, build an addition or help someone move.
In retirement, Terry put his construction management skills to work, joining the building committee to combine 3 parishes into Holy Trinity Church in Lisbon Falls. He maintained the mowing of 2 cemeteries in town for more than 10 years, a task he took great pride in. He stayed active in his children’s endeavors and was a very proud & fond “Grampie T.” to his grandchildren & great-grandchildren.
Never to be forgotten.
Terry’s later years involved a long decent into dementia through Alzheimer’s disease. Though his memory faded, his fundamental personality of being amenable and dutiful showed every day with all who worked and spent time with him. He was a favorite of his care team, making jokes and charming others with his quick smile.
Terry will be greatly missed by his surviving wife of 63 years, Patricia (Arsenault) Tardiff; his 5 children & their spouses: Dean (Josie) Tardiff of Pierre, S.D. , Karen Brown of Bowdoin, Maureen (Joe) Lucey of No. Yarmouth, Aaron (Amalia) Tardiff of Portland, & Mark (Chris) Tardiff of Falmouth; 8 grandchildren, Tim, Connor, Keegan, Abby, Gaelan, Elise, Owen & Elsa; 2 great-grandchildren Grace & Theo, and his loving surviving siblings: Carole, Randy, Tom & Laurie.
Terry was predeceased by his parents Rosario & Virginia Tardiff, his sister, Lynn Hagan and brother, Dean Tardiff.
The family would like to extend its profound gratitude to the wonderful care team at the d'Youville Memory Care Unit & to Andwell Hospice who helped Terry navigate his final stages of Alzheimer's with comfort & dignity.
There will be a funeral mass for Terry at Holy Trinity Church in Lisbon Falls, on April 10 at 11am.
A private celebration of his life will be conducted in May at St. Cyril & Methodious Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, please consider donations which can be made in Terry's memory to St. Mary's d'Youville Pavillion- Memory Care Unit, https://www.stmarysdyouville.org/ways-to-give/make-a-gift/
or to the Alzheimer's Association https://www.alz.org/ .
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