08/12/2024
This one is for anyone, but especially the parents: eat the dessert.
As a kid, I vividly remember my mom always refusing desserts. Birthdays, holidays, didn’t matter. She wouldn’t eat them. To this day (she’s in her 70s) she avoids foods she feels are “fattening.” She weighs herself nearly every day and how she feels about herself is based on the number she sees.
As a child, teenager and even young adult, I modeled many of these behaviors that I learned from my mom. Before I had my first boyfriend I knew that certain foods made you fat and that being fat was somehow bad. It took me decades to unlearn those lies. Decades where I wasn’t properly nourished. Decades where- like so many of you- I deprived myself in the name of health.
So I implore you, parents of the next generation, eat the dessert. Let your kids eat “junk food,” in fact eat it with them. Instead of assigning moral value to food by calling it things like “unhealthy” or “junk” or “fattening”treat foods neutrally.
“This cake is yummy but it only has sugar. I need protein for strong muscles so I’m going to eat some chicken too.”
“I really like some chips with my sandwich but I also need some fiber for a happy tummy so Im going to have a few chips and an apple.”
Always add. Never take away. Show them that while some foods have more nutrients than others- all foods can fit and should be allowed.
If this sounds completely foreign to you, it might be time to heal your relationship with food. So that your children (hopefully) never have to. It can be scary, but I promise it’s well worth it ❤️