Finding Peace with Passage - Working through loss of a child

Finding Peace with Passage - Working through loss of a child Loss is difficult. You are not broken. You are grieving. I help broken people with all types of loss. However, my forte" is child loss.

I get grief having lost a home to fire, a son, caretaking my dad, now cancer complication diminishing my wife, friends Certified Grief Counselor+ LIfe Coach. I lost my first son at 21 years in 2011. Care giver of seriously compromised spouse and formerly of parent - I Get Grief! Have come through my grief after a significant journey filled with all kinds of hurdles and believe I can help you carry and work through your grief. Although this page is Targeted At Parents who have Lost A Child of any age, other types of loss are welcomed. Services include Loss of Spouse, Parent, Sibling or Relationship. Proven Grief to Relief (TM) Program; individual design plan to support and guide you as you grieve within your values, individual loss circumstances, emotions, and trama of loss. Other Services include, grief around Job Loss, Loss of Residence due to disaster, etc which can be traumatic, and looking for help in the discovering and transitioning to something new in life (ICF Certified Life Coaching)

12/18/2025

Grief is only one of life’s struggles. One of the hardest to walk though. There are many times we can feel hopeless.

After I lost my first son who is 21 at the time, I thought I would never see another happy day. I’ve since come to a place, through lots of hard work. Not by just sitting still and letting time deal with things, and I’ve come to once again find satisfaction and joy in life, despite my deep sadness.

That’s what I want for you, and that’s what I’m here encouraging you towards in .

Let’s tame that grief, let’s look at what it really is, not just with nice feeling Instagram posts. There is a place for those; I respect those in this community who post all that, because it’s needed. What’s also needed though is to deal with it head on and look at grief’s realities where we can confront those dragons and push them aside together. This is what I do with my clients. Together with them doing their part, they find life satisfaction, sooner than later.

So tune in now and again. DM to start a conversation.

In the meantime,
First survive, then strive, and eventually may even thrive.

Your spirit can’t shine again!

Harold

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I consider this a business card. If you wish to be heard feel free to post or comment here.

If you are looking to do work to change your life after a loss and regain or reframe your life to as happier state, please join my private Facebook Group Page, the link to which is shown below. After answering a few group rule questions, I will further support you there.

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Remember!! Grief’s waves WILL come and WILL go!   I encourage you to stay in hopeful and preserver. The waves are doing ...
07/10/2025

Remember!! Grief’s waves WILL come and WILL go! I encourage you to stay in hopeful and preserver. The waves are doing important work as your body is learning how to live in the void if tue person you were emotionally attached to.

Harold
Encouraging you to first Survive, then Strive, and eventually, even Thrive!

If I have and am you can too. Trust me!

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Sooner or later it will catch up to you.Whether tomorrow morning or a month from now. A little bit to take the edge off ...
06/05/2025

Sooner or later it will catch up to you.
Whether tomorrow morning or a month from now. A little bit to take the edge off might be in order- here and there- but excessive use, or regular use of substances to ‘medicate’ your pain.

Work towards Finding Peace After Passage. TM

You are responsible for getting through your grief. What do you want that to look like? How do you want to show up for yourself? Even if you work with a counselor or coach, substances only
aggravate grief.

Cutting to the chase. So I don’t expect you to comment back. But you’re welcome and encouraged to share any experience along these lines.

Harold
“Encouraging you to first Survive, then Strive, and eventually, maybe even Thrive”

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Memorial day often get watered down as the first holiday of Summer season, for opening the pool or for grilling meat 🥩 👍...
05/26/2025

Memorial day often get watered down as the first holiday of Summer season, for opening the pool or for grilling meat 🥩 👍🏼

For many people, particularly military families, it is truly a day of memorial and a visit to the cemetery. Emotional pain is reminded, and memories good and not so good shared.

Nick, our son, was never in the military. But today is also reminder of ‘what is’.

I reach out to all the military families who have lost a loved one whom is being recognized on this day.

Whether it was a father, a mother, a brother or a son, I feel your pain.

Harold
“ encouraging you to first survive, then drive, and eventually maybe even thrive.

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