03/29/2026
Hey, Everybody! It’s your Favorite Medium Jan and Sir Tibbetts Wick and we’re coming live here for Sunday Sunset listening to a little Olivia Dean “Talk To Me” one of my favorite songs! And to be able to call someone Wonderful isn’t that amazing! Anyways, we would Welcome you to Sunday Sunset and Welcome indeed!
We have the Pleasure and Privilege of working with people from all over the world from the United States to Canada, Canada, We Love You! From Abu Dhabi to Guam to Puerto Rico to Portugal to down under Australia to South America to the Bahamas and Jamaica we’re thinking about you. We also want to look at the United Kingdom - Ireland, England, Scotland. We also want to look at South Africa; the reason why I mentioned all these places, and there’s so many more, because we’ve had the Pleasure, Privilege of working with people from all over, both people and pets, and also animals, that we like to acknowledge them!
So let’s go ahead and jump in for Sunday Sunset! This is something that I’ve been thinking about; and I thought, you know, why not talk about it because I think it’s something that we’re not the best at. And I want to talk with you about this today. For this week‘s Challenge is how to…
I know often you’ve heard me say: “Own It; Claim It; Apologize; Clean It Up and Move On”.
We’re going to look at this with another approach. One of the researchers is, that I actually I’d like, to listen to has been the Gottman’s. They talk a lot in their research about “repairs” so let’s talk about repair.
One of the thing was when my Mom always said you know when you say something, within 30 seconds, you know whether you need to apologize; and, then, she would say apologize. One of things they talk about is repair. When they use the word repair what they mean, at least from my take, is that if you’ve done something wrong, you’ve caused harm, or something was said that didn’t land right, with someone that you talk about that and work it out.
So the reason why I bring that up is because I think a lot of people don’t know about that and don’t know how to do that. And it can be pretty simple. So that’s going to be the Challenge.
Ans what I want to say is that repair for me is more about “the hurt of the heart, soul and spirit to the individual”… one more time “repair to me is about the hurt that goes to the heart, soul and spirit of the individual” and what we want to do is be able to correct that from any behavior, action that we have done, a reaction, and what I mean by correct it is to apologize and to talk it through.
Most relationships, when you do that, have a higher success rate regardless of whether it’s a partnership, marriage, friendship, we’re calling whatever that is; and it’s something that’s really important to me. So when I talk about that, I just want you to think about doing that.
So if we look at repair in relation to the hurt to the heart, soul and spirit, a repair is a hurt to the heart, soul, spirit, why wouldn’t we want to go ahead and repair that; wouldn’t we want to go ahead and try and fix that; wouldn’t we want to go ahead and try and give whatever we could to offer an apology and for forgiveness.
That’s all I want you to think about for this week. I know it might sound a little off, but really it’s not. My experience has been a lot of times when people do things that’s pretty hurtful, they don’t know what to say. They don’t know what to do. They don’t know how to come back from that.
So let’s talk about the way that we come back from that. Very simply, is we look at it as a hurt to the heart, soul and spirit and that’s something at least I know that I don’t want to see anyone else have, so what can we do to remedy it; to fix it;
to make it better so that the relationship can continue to grow - that’s what I’m talking about.
We do it because we want to see the relationship continue to grow. All right everyone, I hope this helps in some way. We want to Thank You for joining us. If you want more information on us, you can go to the Spiritmessagework.com appointments will be coming up after the first week of April. You could go ahead and look at that. They’ll be some phone session appointments coming up until we jump into our summer camp season in June of this year!
We hope you’re doing well, let’s have a great week together! Let’s remember that we’re building community about how we learn, how we grow and how we believe in each other. Alright, let us remember to throw that Kindness out there! Let’s have a great week together! Ok Tibbs, Let’s Rock n Roll everybody! Love To All! Jan & Tibbs 🐾✨
