10/10/2022
Greetings CR friends,
NEXT MEETING: It is this Wednesday night October 12. It’ll be testimony night, and we’ll hear a powerful story from a person whose life was transformed by Christ, and how CR was a part of that. Dinner at 5:30 pm ($5.00 pp) then our large group meeting starts at 6:15 PM. Open Share groups start at 7:00 and our Fellowship Café opens at 7:45.
Due to the congestion the C.O.W. creates both at the CLC’s Kid Zone entrance and the main entrance, we encourage you to use the entrance on the very far right side of the building, nearest the “goose pond”. Directional signs will be in place.
Here’s a recap from this last week and the topic of Denial…
MASKS OF DENIAL… Before we can start to make real progress in our recovery, we need to examine ourselves to see what masks we have been relying on, to cover our hurts, habits or hang-ups. As soon as we brave removing our mask, handing it over to Jesus, our recovery begins…or begins again! It doesn’t matter if we’re new in recovery or have been in the process of working the steps and principles for years. Denial can rear it’s ugly head and return at any time, resurfacing as some new form of addiction or coping mechanism.
The Effects of Denial: (Notice the acronym)
Denial: Disables our feelings- denial plays games with our feelings, trying to convince us that our thoughts and feelings are mistaken. 2 Peter 2:19 (GNB) tells us: “… they themselves are slaves of destructive habits—for a person is a slave of anything that has conquered them.”
Denial: means Energy lost- A major side-effect of denial is anxiety. Anxiety causes us to waste precious energy dealing with past hurts and failures and the fear of the future. As you go through this program you will learn that it is only in the present that positive change can occur. Worrying about the past and dreading the future makes us unable to live and enjoy God’s plans for us in the present. Psalm 146:7 (TLB) says, “He frees the prisoners… he lifts the burdens from those bent down beneath their loads.”
Denial: Negates growth- We cannot grow in recovery until we are ready to step out of our denial into the truth. The Bible says, “They cried to the Lord in their troubles, and he rescued them! He led them from the darkness and shadow of death and snapped their chains” (Psalm 107:13–14, TLB).
Denial: Isolates us from God. It keeps us form trusting God to help us. Denial keeps us from accepting God’s love in our lives.
Denial: Alienates us from our relationships- when we are in denial we find it easy to hide from God and others… sometimes we hide what we are doing, sometimes what we are thinking. Stepping out of denial requires honesty about our lives. Truth, like surgery, may hurt for a while, but it cures.
Denial: Lengthens the pain- We have the false belief that denial protects us from our pain. In reality, denial allows our pain to fester and grow and to turn into shame and guilt. Denial multiplies our problems. God promises us in Jeremiah 30:17 (TLB), “I will give you back your health again and heal your wounds.”
Jesus tells us, “and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free”
(John 8:32).
Here’s a challenge for this week: Step out of your denial so you can step into Jesus’ unconditional love and grace and begin your healing journey of recovery.
Remember God is for you,and joins you in this process of growing in health and wholeness.
WE HOPE TO SEE YOU WEDNESDAY NIGHT!
The CR Team