09/30/2025
With the recent violent events happening here in our state and across our country, it’s easy to lose hope in humanity. But while these times are sad and heartbreaking, I hope we never lose sight of the possibility for better things and better days.
I was reminded of a story:
A daughter once approached her mother and said, “I’m tired. I hate my life.” The mother listened quietly. Then, in the kitchen, she placed a pot of water on the stove. Into it she added carrots, an egg, and some coffee beans. After boiling them, she laid them out on the counter.
She asked her daughter to look and explained:
“The carrots went into the boiling water firm, but they turned soft. The egg, once fragile, became hard inside. But the coffee beans didn’t just endure the hot water—they changed the water itself. You, too, can decide what to become in the face of trials: soft like the carrots, hardened like the egg, or like the coffee beans, transforming your circumstances instead of being defined by them.”
I’ve seen some of the greatest examples of resilience in patients, colleagues, friends, family, and even strangers—people who turned adversity into lessons, strength, kindness, compassion, bravery, and hope.
It’s okay to be afraid. It’s okay to get angry. It’s okay to cry. But don’t lose hope in humanity. Don’t lose hope that even from deep pain and evil, good and divine goodwill can still rise.
Whether or not you believe in God—or in any higher power—remember this: we all have the power to change the circumstances around us.