02/02/2026
What does personalized couples massage instruction actually mean?
It means I don’t show up with a lesson plan or any preconceived ideas about what you should need. No two couples are the same, and I will never have the same session twice.
This week I was in the most beautiful couple’s home. The wife suffers from migraines and low back pain, and her husband simply wanted to be able to help her. She wasn’t interested in learning how to work on him — and that was perfectly okay. So we focused entirely on her needs.
I taught him bolstering techniques for low back pain, and when we started working on massage strokes, he mentioned he’s double-jointed and struggles to support his finger joints. No problem. I adapted everything to soft fists, forearms, and the wooden tools I brought with me.
At one point, while working on her neck, he said, “This is easy — I could do this all day.” When you know how to use your body correctly, it really does become easier.
Because she has difficulty lying flat, I also brought a seated massage chair and taught him techniques he could use for her headaches when time is limited.
After 90 minutes of working side by side, he was able to fully relax and enjoy a 60-minute massage from me — leaving confident, equipped, and ready to help his wife when she’s in pain.
These sessions aren’t cookie-cutter videos or generic routines. They’re practical, real-life skills tailored specifically to your bodies, your limitations, and your needs.
If you want to feel confident helping the person you love — and not guess your way through it — this is for you. Message me to learn more or book your session.