10/05/2025
I BUILT THIS BENCH. It’s stout, but not the biggest one around. It’s a good bench, but considering my handyman/carpenter abilities, it is probably not the ‘best’ bench, even within a mile of the island. It is constructed of some sturdy planks, affixed to a couple of jack pine logs. I built it because I wanted a place to sit near the dock, next to a fine boulder on which I can rest a cup of coffee. It fulfills those duties well.
A flood came several years ago and tried to wash the bench away, more or less tearing it apart in the process. I rebuilt it. It’s probably better now than it was.
I think that’s how we are going to get through our current difficulties. We do what we can. However limited our capabilities might be. We use what we can, planks and logs and rocks. Words and actions and determination. We strive for sturdiness and durability, knowing that turbulent flood waters are rising and our work might be washed away. Then we rebuild, trying to make things stronger than before.
The lessons we teach our kids and grandkids, the words we say to one another, to friends and acquaintances, the letters we write and the rallies or protests we attend or support, they may seem like small things. Not the flashiest or most important, not as big and fine as some others perhaps. But they are real and they are ours. Authentically ours. And we can take satisfaction and comfort in that.
And someone else might come along sometime, dock at your dock perhaps, and find just the perfect bench, the perfect spot to rest or restore themselves. And gather strength for journey ahead. Benches are good for that.