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Ladies - you know I love you! Which is why I have to keep it real 🫶🏼 Some of these might be a little hard to hear but th...
01/31/2026

Ladies - you know I love you! Which is why I have to keep it real 🫶🏼 Some of these might be a little hard to hear but they’re meant to help, not shame you.

Here are the truths behind the slides:

👉🏼 “Cortisol face” isn’t a medical diagnosis. What people are usually seeing is inflammation, water retention, poor sleep, high stress, alcohol, and inconsistent nutrition — not a broken body.
👉🏼 Age doesn’t determine your ability to lose fat. Your body just needs different input than it did before - especially more protein, more strength training, and better recovery.
👉🏼 Your metabolism isn’t broken. Under-eating, inconsistent protein, lack of strength training, poor sleep, and chronic stress will slow progress — and all of that is fixable.
👉🏼 You don’t need another reset, detox, or round of restriction. That cycle keeps you stuck and frustrated.
👉🏼 Eating “healthy” or “clean” doesn’t automatically mean weight loss. Calories, protein, and consistency is what matters.
👉🏼 The scale will fluctuate daily & weekly — especially when you’re building muscle. This is normal!
👉🏼 Supplements won’t fix your habits. Supplements support; they don’t solve. Focus on your diet first - supplements last.
👉🏼 I know it already feels like you have a lot on your plate. But prioritizing simple meals, getting your steps in, and adding quick movement snacks throughout the day will move the needle. Stop blaming your hormones and start prioritizing your health!
👉🏼 The sugar in natural fruit is far less damaging than the alcohol you’re drinking regularly. I’m not saying you need to quit entirely — but it’s worth taking an honest look.

TLDR: you’re not failing. There’s an overwhelming amount of misleading, fear based messaging that prey on your weaknesses and sell a bunch of bu****it. The quicker we can recognize that, the quicker we can get into healthier, long-term solutions to a healthier way of living. You’re learning how to work with your body in this season of life. And I’ll always be here to tell you the truth. 💋

01/30/2026

Meal prep - start simple! You do NOT have to prep every single meal and snack to start off. Identify the times in your day where you need food prepped and start there. Baby steps friends - one small change, one new habit at a time 💋

01/28/2026

I’ll stick to lifting weights, k bye✌🏼

Where my strong girls at? ⚡️💪🏼

xo

01/27/2026

Not every day is going to go as planned. Schedules change, days get busy and workouts have to be adjusted. This is when we pivot. Do what you can with the time you have when life shows up and gets a little lifey. And please remember! Do NOT discredit whatever movement you’re able to squeeze in because it still counts! Be proud that you’re showing up and putting forth the effort 👏🏼

xo

01/26/2026

Costco 1/2 Haul - just a few of my staples I keep in my fridge for the week that save me time and keep me feeling my best as a 47 year old single mom and fitness trainer 🤍

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I did not gain & lose 8 pounds this week.What I experienced was a very normal scale fluctuation.The scale is just one da...
01/25/2026

I did not gain & lose 8 pounds this week.
What I experienced was a very normal scale fluctuation.
The scale is just one data point — not the whole picture and not the truth about your progress.

Here’s what’s actually happening 👇🏼
This week included multiple meals out for birthday celebrations. When we eat foods we don’t prepare ourselves, they’re often higher in sodium & carbs, which causes the body to temporarily retain water. That water shows up on the scale — but it’s not true fat gain.

A little science for perspective:
To gain one pound of body fat, you’d need to eat about 3,500 calories above maintenance.
So unless I ate a 21,000-calorie day (and I didn’t), the scale spike isn’t real weight gain.

Notice what happened next 👉🏼Within 24 hours, the number started trending back down. Because bodies regulate. Water releases. Balance returns. By tomorrow I’ll be back to my regular 148/149 lbs.

This is why we don’t obsess over a single weigh-in.
We look at trends on the scale, not moments.

Other data that matters just as much (if not more):
• how your clothes fit
• strength in the gym
• energy levels
• consistency with habits
• how you feel in your body

The scale can be useful — when it’s put in its proper place. It gives data. It does not define success.

If you needed this reminder today, save it 🤍

xo

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