Goodguys2Greatmen

Goodguys2Greatmen The SOLE PURPOSE of this page is to inspire men (and their partners) to take charge of themselves, their relationships, and their purpose in life.

We help men who want MORE from their life and relationships to be confident, considerate AND MASCULINE so that they can have PASSION, AFFECTION and INTIMATE CONNECTION whenever they want. Thatโ€™s a BIG claim I know. We donโ€™t just claim that we can deliver this though, we promise to. We love coaching men to understand what it means to take the lead in their relationships and create more fulfilling lives for themselves.

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐๐ข๐œ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐„๐ง๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž โ€“ ๐Ÿ ๐˜๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐žCan you predict the end of your marriage? This article discusses...
01/08/2026

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ซ๐ž๐๐ข๐œ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐„๐ง๐ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž โ€“ ๐Ÿ ๐˜๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ ๐๐ž๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ž

Can you predict the end of your marriage? This article discusses what to do if youโ€™re afraid that your marriage is heading downhill and the possibility of separation or divorce is looming.

A lot of couples are painfully unaware of this 2-year warning clock in their marriage.

I thought I was all alone. I thought I was special.

But over the years my clients have proved me wrong. This happens nearly every day.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-predict-the-end-of-your-marriage-2-years-before/

๐’๐ž๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐‹๐ž๐š๐ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐„๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐„๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ ๐ˆ๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉAre you stuck in a s*xless marriage or low s*x relati...
01/07/2026

๐’๐ž๐ฑ๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž ๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐‹๐ž๐š๐ ๐“๐ก๐ž ๐„๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐œ ๐„๐ง๐ž๐ซ๐ ๐ฒ ๐ˆ๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐‘๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ

Are you stuck in a s*xless marriage or low s*x relationship? Itโ€™s one of the hardest, most painful and loneliest places a man can endure.

Learn this simple rule to turn your s*x life around
I tend to coach and write about the things I most need to heal within myself.

And that leads me to the subject of s*x.

Iโ€™m writing this article more for me than for you, but youโ€™re welcome to eavesdrop on my internal conversation.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/s*xless-marriage-how-to-lead-the-erotic-energy-in-your-relationship/

๐”๐ง๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐š๐ง ๐Ž๐ซ ๐”๐ง๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐‚๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐žAre you an unhappy man in an unhappy marriage? Most advice to create a happier...
01/05/2026

๐”๐ง๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐š๐ง ๐Ž๐ซ ๐”๐ง๐ก๐š๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ฒ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐‚๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž

Are you an unhappy man in an unhappy marriage? Most advice to create a happier life and relationship focuses on trying to control the circumstances and manipulate your wife to get her to change her behaviour.

In this article I explain why your perspective and focus should be on who you are as a man, what you want and where youโ€™re headed because thatโ€™s all the control you have over anything. The results from being that man are the results that are supposed to happen.

As an unhappily married man you DO have options

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/unhappy-man-or-unhappy-marriage/

๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐‡๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ ๐Œ๐ž ๐“๐š๐ฅ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐…๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌHave you had the thought โ€œMy Wife Hates Me, especially when it comes to talking a...
01/03/2026

๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐‡๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ฌ ๐Œ๐ž ๐“๐š๐ฅ๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐Œ๐ฒ ๐…๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ

Have you had the thought โ€œMy Wife Hates Me, especially when it comes to talking about my feelings and talking about our relationshipโ€.

Does she seem so cold, dismissive, distant and disrespectful while youโ€™re all emotional and need to feel closer to her?

This article is bound to tick off idealists who believe โ€œit shouldnโ€™t be like thatโ€.

Sorry. But for scads of married men it is like that.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/wife-hates-me-talking-about-my-feelings/

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ƒ๐จ๐ž๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐‹๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ โ€“ ๐–๐ก๐ฒ?Have you noticed that your wife doesnโ€™t like compliments from you anymore? How ar...
01/02/2026

๐Œ๐ฒ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐ƒ๐จ๐ž๐ฌ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐‹๐ข๐ค๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ โ€“ ๐–๐ก๐ฒ?

Have you noticed that your wife doesnโ€™t like compliments from you anymore? How are you supposed to create more connection, passion and intimacy when you canโ€™t even give her a compliment which makes her feel good?

A lesson all men must learn before itโ€™s too late
Bobโ€™s happiness was infectious as he excitedly told us about his new girlfriend he met since his divorce a year ago.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/my-wife-doesnt-like-compliments/

๐๐จ ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐š๐Ÿ๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ ๐„๐ช๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐€ ๐‚๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐žYour wife expects you to know what emotional safety means to her...
12/29/2025

๐๐จ ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐’๐š๐Ÿ๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ ๐„๐ช๐ฎ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐€ ๐‚๐จ๐ฅ๐ ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž

Your wife expects you to know what emotional safety means to her. It is so important for a man to understand this and WHY it is YOUR JOB to create it. If you are trying to improve or save your marriage and intimate life, you must embrace this reality and own it!

Emotional safety is important to both men and women. Without it, we feel unsure about opening up and sharing sensitive emotions and thoughts with each other. Fear of being judged, criticized, or ignored will shut down any hope of communicating at a deeper level on just about any topic. This absolutely affects the ability of two people to connect on an intimate level. Show me a man who has neglected his job in the emotional safety department and Iโ€™ll show you a man who has an unhappy marriage and an unsatisfying s*x life.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/no-emotional-safety-equals-a-cold-affectionless-marriage/

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐‚๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ˆ๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐žWant to know how to crate more affection in your marriage? Thereโ€™s a common...
12/27/2025

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐‚๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐€๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ˆ๐ง ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž

Want to know how to crate more affection in your marriage? Thereโ€™s a common mistake many men make without even realizing it and it slowly damages your wifeโ€™s ability and willingness to be affectionate with you.

I speak from experience โ€“ I used to make this mistake with my wife for many years.

This article and video explains what that mistake is and how to stop doing it.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/the-secret-to-building-a-marriage-with-more-intimacy-and-affection/

๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐€๐ง๐ ๐…๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐†๐จ๐จ๐ ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐€๐ ๐š๐ข๐งWhen youโ€™re afraid that your marriage is ending, the feelings of uncer...
12/26/2025

๐’๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐œ๐ž ๐€๐ง๐ ๐…๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐†๐จ๐จ๐ ๐€๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฅ๐Ÿ ๐€๐ ๐š๐ข๐ง

When youโ€™re afraid that your marriage is ending, the feelings of uncertainty, anxiety and betrayal can be overwhelming. To survive divorce and feel good about yourself again you must learn a new understanding of your feelings and what this period in your life has to teach you.

The Drug Called โ€œFearโ€
Fear feels like your legs canโ€™t move and something is on your heels about to kill you.

Itโ€™s a drug that makes you feel powerless to fix the crumbling chaos in front of you.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/survive-divorce-and-feel-good-again/

๐๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐–๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐žThe key to being more confident with your wife lies in learning the ways that you giv...
12/25/2025

๐๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐–๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž

The key to being more confident with your wife lies in learning the ways that you give away your confidence and understanding how to use your natural masculine strength to lead the relationship towards the affection and intimacy you really want.

Advice For My Younger Self
I write these articles and make my videos for a slightly younger version of me. The fact that you may relate to these topics is pure coincidence.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/being-more-confident-with-your-wife/

๐’๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ˆ๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐Ž๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž?Do you feel like youโ€™re sinking into depression because of your marriag...
12/24/2025

๐’๐ข๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ˆ๐ง๐ญ๐จ ๐ƒ๐ž๐ฉ๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐Ž๐Ÿ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž?

Do you feel like youโ€™re sinking into depression because of your marriage? I know how that feels. The darkness and despair can feel like itโ€™s going to swallow your happiness forever. But there is hopeโ€ฆ

I was working with a 32-year-old client the other day when it hit me.

He is facing circumstances in his marriage that give him an impending sense of doom. His wife is growing colder by the dayโ€ฆdisconnected, often disrespectful and frequently angry.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/sinking-into-depression-because-of-your-marriage/

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐‚๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐“๐จ ๐๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ?What caused your wife to become distant is often the same as what causes horses ...
12/23/2025

๐–๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐‚๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐–๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž ๐“๐จ ๐๐ž๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ญ?

What caused your wife to become distant is often the same as what causes horses to not want to be ridden by their owners.

This article will help YOU understand that there is another language to learn if you want a closer, more trusting, respectful and intimate marriage again.

What Horses Can Teach Us About Our Relationships With Women

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/what-caused-your-wife-to-become-distant/

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐๐ž ๐€ ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐‡๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐Want to be a more confident husband? Youโ€™re confident at work & socially, but at home ...
12/20/2025

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐“๐จ ๐๐ž ๐€ ๐Œ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐‚๐จ๐ง๐Ÿ๐ข๐๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐‡๐ฎ๐ฌ๐›๐š๐ง๐

Want to be a more confident husband? Youโ€™re confident at work & socially, but at home it disappears with just a single look, a sigh or a remark from your wife.

Being Crystal Clear About Who You Are
Thereโ€™s a big problem with โ€œconventional wisdomโ€ like in this great quote:

โ€œIf you donโ€™ know where youโ€™re going, youโ€™ll end up someplace elseโ€

Sure, that quote makes sense and even makes you laugh a little at how ridiculously OBVIOUS it is.

https://goodguys2greatmen.com/how-to-be-a-more-confident-husband/

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