02/18/2022
"It is Choice NOT Chance, that determines your destiny. " - Jean Nidetch
📸:
When you're at your lowest, it's in that moment you need to believe in yourself. We want to blame others for our misfortune or bad luck. We want to curse others for doing us wrong or not supporting us. And while that may be the reality, we have to make a choice, "what are we going to do about it?".
We can't move through life complaining, "oh she said this about me" or "you know what he did to me? He did me wrong and now..." etc. People love to listen to our drama, sure, 🤷🏽♀️ and we may get sympathy, but people don't really care. This process only reinforces a victim persona.
The best option is to choose to move in the direction of your dreams despite the "he said/she said". Those might be important stepping stone moments, but don't let them define you. Believe in yourself and don't give what the haters said any power over you. 💯