
07/29/2025
“Talk to yourself like you would to. someone you love”-Brene BrownWellness is being emphasized more and more in society. We live in a stressful world and if we
are not careful the effects of that stress can have negative impacts on our physical and mental
well-being. Stress and unhealthy living is cumulative and as we age its effects can be
devastating.
Self-care is one way that we can face this inevitable phenomenon. Self care is not synonymous
with self-indulgence or being selfish. It means taking care of yourself so that you can be
healthy, you can be well, you can do your job, you can help and care for others, and you can
do all the things you need to and want to accomplish in a day. Anxiety and depression, and just
plain feeling lousy, is on the rise and we all need self-care.
My coaching manual has a brilliant definition of self-care. They define self-care “as a way of
living that incorporates behaviors that enable one to maintain personal health and balance,
replenish energy and motivation, and grow as a person.” Personal health, balance, energy,
motivation and growth.
What does self-care look like for you? Are you practicing self-care enough and if so how are
you doing that? If not, what is getting in your way?
Self-care is individualized and will look different for everyone. It might be committing to a
consistent yoga practice. It might be a daily walk without your phone. It might be a bubble bath
at the end of each day. It might be prioritizing enough sleep. It might be eating healthier. We
need to schedule that time in our lives and prioritize whatever activity it is that helps you
decompress, return to center, calm your mind, and take care of your physical body. I confess
that I am guilty of plopping myself down in front of the TV but I know this is not self care. I
also make time to move my body, find time for sitting and breathing, eating healthier and going
to bed at a reasonable time. I realize that as I age, these activities nourish my mind and body
and as a result I am healthier than if I did not do these things.