04/10/2026
When you feel triggers, emotional, or uncomfortable with something you’re experiencing and you immediately need to share with others or project onto someone else, you’re missing an opportunity.
I’m not an “elder”, but I want to be one.
If you crave the peace of “Spirit”, becoming an elder is a necessity.
To walk the path of the elder, we must digest the pain we experience.
What I do is I have a 2-3 day refractory period anytime I’m upset where I don’t share or say anything to anyone.
I let my body run through the full emotional cycle of what it’s experiencing.
At the end of the cycle, 95% of the time, I realize that my discomfort and pain was about me, not about the other person.
And I don’t say anything to the person who irritated me anyway.
This allows me to gain the wisdom of I why I was upset and cleanup karma as I develop my emotional and spiritual bodies to receive the discomfort of life.
Because when we don’t digest the pain and we immediately project, we miss the opportunity to develop these bodies.
And someone else gets the opportunity to digest the pain.
Sharing without projection can be helpful if someone needs support processing what’s going on, if the truly don’t have an intent to leave their “stuff” in someone else’s burden basket.
We then need to share very mindfully if at all.
My conditioning makes it easy for me to process alone, internally, because this is what I always did.
When you’re able to go into the darkness of your psyche alone knowing no one else is coming to save you, you’ll find a level of sovereignty and heart-centeredness that is impossible to find when you lean too much on others.
The more pain we digest and wisdom we accumulate, the more elders we will create in the next 30-50 years.
What greater gift is there for our younger generations?
❤️🐻✊