
05/11/2024
3 Things My Mom Did NOT Teach Me (Part 3):
This was not a likely friendship.
Two women, initially separated by both the North Sea and the English Channel, my mom and Dorothy found themselves sharing an English hospital room. Although with different ailments, the Nordic language and Cornwall dialect did not seem to create a barrier.
My mom would recall how frightened she was, not only being horribly ill but also not knowing how to communicate with the doctors in English. From the next bed, Dorothy gently tried to calm my mom, to connect even though she did not speak a word of Danish and act a liason with the medical staff. The bond grew.
Over 40 years later, they continued to write and sometimes make an appointment with the phone company for a long-distance call (remember, this is before personal phones). Every conversation or letter was like the years had melted away.
My mom eventually learned that while Dorothy had been made a widow on the beaches of Normandy, yet almost like a movie script, her husband’s best friend came to tell her the bad news and then over time they eventually wed!
As I got older my mom encouraged me to write to her as well so we became pen pals until her passing. I learned that distance and time do not matter when you have found a true friend.
Thank you, Mom, ❤❤for living out the example of a devoted friend.
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