The Other Side Therapy

The Other Side Therapy Therapist & Guide Helping Women Break Toxic Patterns, Reclaim Confidence,& Discover the Blueprint for Healthy, Lasting Love. Kerrie Jones, AMFT, APCC

04/21/2026

You already know how this story goes.

The hope.
The waiting.
The confusion.
The emotional exhaustion.

And still, a part of you wants to believe this time will be different.

That doesn’t make you foolish.
It means hope has been stronger than truth.

But hope without evidence will keep you in pain.

You don’t need more signs.
You don’t need more potential.
You don’t need one more chance to see if he’ll become who he said he was.

You need clarity.
You need truth.
You need to choose yourself before this pattern chooses for you again.

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If you’re ready to choose differently, join me inside Unhooked before we begin.

Link in bio.

04/20/2026

It’s rarely the grand gestures that keep you attached.

It’s the little things.

The check-in text.
The random compliment.
The last-minute plan.
The tiny bit of effort that feels like progress.

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That’s what breadcrumbing is.

Just enough attention to keep your interest…but never enough consistency to build something real.

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And because it’s not nothing, you keep hoping it’s becoming something.

You start calling crumbs potential.

You start calling confusion patience.

You start calling waiting loyalty.

Consistency doesn’t need to be decoded. It shows up clearly.

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If you’re tired of mistaking small effort for real investment, join me in Unhooked.

Link in bio.

04/19/2026

If you’ve ever gambled in a casino, you know one thing:

You weren’t meant to win.

You might win a little at first.
Just enough to feel hopeful.
Just enough to think maybe this is working.

But the system is built for you to lose.

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That’s how inconsistency works.

A little attention.
A little effort.
A little connection.

Just enough to keep you playing.

Just enough to keep you hoping.

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And every time you leave confused, disappointed, or emotionally drained…

you tell yourself maybe next time will be different.

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But the real question is:

How many times are you willing to lose yourself trying to win with someone who’s inconsistent?

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I’m breaking this down inside Unhooked.

Register now. Link in bio.

04/17/2026

You tell yourself you keep choosing the wrong men.

But it doesn’t feel like a choice when you’re in it.

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It feels like chemistry.
Like connection.
Like something you can’t ignore.

That pull you feel?

It’s not random.
It’s familiar.

Something you subconsciously recognize before you even have time to think clearly.

That’s why it keeps happening.

You’re not actively making bad decisions.
There’s something deeper choosing for you.

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If you’re ready to understand it and finally choose differently join me inside the Unhooked Workshop.

Link in bio.

04/17/2026

Why Smart Women Choose the Wrong Men, out now on YouTube!

Listen in as I share what keeps you going back to toxic relationships.

SPOILER ALERT 🚨 it’s not your destiny. You weren’t created to bend, break, and fix.

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04/17/2026

It doesn’t feel like a pattern when you’re in it.

It feels like:
This one is different.
This one has potential.
This one just needs time.

And then, slowly…the same feelings start to come back.

The overthinking.
The questioning.
The emotional pull you can’t quite explain.

And at some point you stop and think: How did I end up here again?

Not because you’re choosing this on purpose. But because something about it…feels familiar.

Familiar feels like connection.
Familiar feels like chemistry.
Familiar feels right.

Even when it isn’t.

That’s how patterns repeat.
Not loudly.
Not obviously.

But in ways that feel almost… normal.

Until you see it clearly.

If you’re ready to understand what’s been driving this (and finally change it), join me inside Unhooked.

Link in bio.

04/16/2026

Smart women don’t choose the wrong men because they’re not smart.
They choose them unconsciously.

Choosing a partner is emotional—not logical.

Watch: Why Do Smart Women Choose the Wrong Men? on YouTube.

Learn why your choice in a partner hasn’t aligned with your intelligence.

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04/15/2026

You think you miss him.

But when you really sit with it, I t’s more than that.

You miss the version of you that was trying to make it work.

The one who was more patient.
More understanding.
Less reactive.
More “easy to love.”

The one who thought
if I just get this right, this could finally become something real.

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And that’s exhausting.

Because you weren’t just in a relationship…you were trying to earn one.

So when it ends, you don’t just lose him.

You lose the effort.
The hope.
The version of you that was trying so hard to be chosen.

That’s what’s hard to let go of.

And if you don’t see that clearly,
you’ll keep becoming that version of yourself…
for the next person too.

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If you’re ready to understand this pattern (and finally stop repeating it),
join me inside Unhooked.

Link in bio.

04/15/2026

You keep telling yourself you miss him. But when you really sit with it, it’s not him you’re reaching for.

It’s the moments when things felt good.

When he showed up.
When you felt chosen.
When it seemed like it could actually become something.

So your mind goes back there.

To the version of him that made you feel something.
And skips over everything else.

The inconsistency.
The confusion.
The way you had to question yourself.

That’s why it’s hard to let go.

Not because of who he is. But because of how it felt when it was good.

If you’re ready to understand the difference and finally break the pattern, I’m teaching it live inside Unhooked.

You can register now.

Link in bio.

04/13/2026

You tell yourself it’s love.

That’s why it’s so hard to let go.

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But if you’re honest…
it’s not just about him.

It’s about what being chosen by him meant.

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If he chose you…
maybe you’re enough.

If he stayed…
maybe you did it right.

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So when he pulls away,
it doesn’t just feel like loss.

It feels like something about you
is slipping too.

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That’s what makes it so hard to let go.

Not love.

But what you attached to it.

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And when that goes unexamined,
the pattern repeats.

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I walk you through this inside Unhooked.

You can register now.

Link in bio.

04/12/2026

It doesn’t feel like a cycle when you’re in it.

It feels like connection…
followed by confusion.

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He shows up.
You feel close.

He pulls back.
You feel anxious.

—

And when he comes back again…
you feel relief.

—

That relief is what keeps you hooked.

Not him.

—

Because your brain starts associating him
with feeling better.

But the only reason you need that relief…
is because of the discomfort he created.

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That’s the cycle.

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And until you see it clearly,
it keeps repeating.

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I teach you how to break this inside Unhooked.

Link in bio.

04/11/2026

It’s not just that he was inconsistent.

It’s how it made you feel.

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When someone is hot and cold,
your mind starts searching for answers.

What changed?
What did I do?
What do I need to fix?

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Because if you can figure it out,
maybe you can control the outcome.

Maybe you can get them to show up
the way you need.

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But that question
what did I do?—
is what hooks you.

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Now you’re not just experiencing them.
You’re trying to solve them.

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And the more you try to solve them,
the more attached you become.

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This is how inconsistency starts to feel personal.

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I’m breaking this down inside Unhooked.
If you’re ready to understand the pattern (and finally stop chasing it), register now.

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