12/21/2022
I am a HUGE fan of the power of gratitude…and there is so much research out there to support the physical and emotional benefits of gratitude (check out this beautiful article on gratitude).
But I also want to recognize that it is not always so easy to be grateful!!! When we have been stuck in cycles of pain, or attached to long held limiting beliefs…it can be so much harder to see the good and summon up those positive thoughts.
In these situations, I rely on my experience as an Energy Psychology practitioner and Clinical EFT specialist and recommend trying this 3 step process….
(1) Go easy on yourself!
How many times have we heard, “can’t you just be grateful?”, or “you should just be grateful for x, y or z”. Well, maybe so, but easier said than done depending on your personal experiences. Give yourself a little extra love if you have difficulty with gratitude, there is likely a good reason.
(2) Use a mind-body practice (such as Clinical EFT/Tapping) to acknowledge this is difficult for you…or maybe you just do not feel like having gratitude and do not know why!..it’s all okay, just release/forgive yourself for feeling this way.
(3) Try a “priming technique” to test the gratitude waters on something small. Choose something in your immediate environment you have no major attachment to and just try to come up with 10 positive aspects (one for each of your fingers!)…for example, with an apple I might say, I the deep red color, the smooth feeling in my hand, it smells slightly sweet, it can feed people, etc.
After these 3 steps…get out that pen and paper and try some gratitude again, you might be surprised by how much easier it is!
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Robert Emmons, perhaps the world’s leading scientific expert on gratitude, argues that gratitude has two key components, which he describes in a Greater Good essay, “Why Gratitude Is Good.” “First,” he writes, “it’s an affirmation of goodness. We affirm that...