04/28/2022
The more self-love the less messy the person…
Usually someone with high levels of self-love takes care of their business, has strong boundaries, treats others with respect, and looks after themselves the way they would a cherished loved one.
I often talk about this with clients who struggle with dating emotionally unavailable people (pre-clinically referred to as fucc boiz lol) but it can apply to any relational dynamic.
If they keep you guessing, don’t reciprocate effort, constantly nitpick, pick fights, make rude comments, have issues with scores of people, or are just generally messy, it’s very likely they don’t genuinely love themselves.
What’s more, very often the energy *we* give off invites like energy in…
Let that sizzle.
It wasn’t until I really put serious effort into loving myself and raising my vibrational energy, that everything changed and the right people (kind, loving, consistent), situations (stable), and scenarios (successful, joyful) poured in.
S**t wasn’t easy, but I personally love a challenge and in the end I absolutely crushed learning how to love myself…
and so can you.💕
If this resonated, share with a friend who might benefit from seeing it too.
