10/09/2025
Love Should Expand You, Not Drain You! ❤️🩹
When he sends you “teachings” about how you should behave, he’s framing the dynamic so your focus goes back to him — even if it’s presented as mutual growth. Your body senses this as control, not love.
That’s why:
• You feel heaviness instead of lightness after talking.
• Your energy feels drained instead of inspired.
• Your nervous system can’t relax — because your boundaries are being subtly crossed.
It’s not about one video; it’s the energetic message behind it: “You need to adjust for this to work.”
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🕊️ Reclaiming Your Energy
To restore your inner calm and inspiration, create energetic hygiene practices and new boundaries.
1. Shift the Contact Rhythm
Give yourself a few days with no communication.
Silence isn’t punishment — it’s medicine.
Every pause rebuilds your life force.
2. Stop Explaining Yourself
When you explain or defend, your energy flows outward.
Instead, anchor this simple inner mantra:
“I choose peace over proving.”
Say it every time you feel the urge to respond.
3. Daily Energy Retrieval Ritual
Morning or evening:
• Place one hand on your heart, one on your womb (or solar plexus).
• Close your eyes and whisper:
“I call back my energy from all conversations, all worries, all expectations.
I release what’s not mine.
I anchor my power in love.”
• Breathe until your body softens.
4. Nourish What Inspires You
Replace the space his energy occupied with what uplifts your soul:
🖋 journaling, ☀️ sunrise walks, 🎶 music that makes you move, 📚 studying something you love.
This is how you redirect the current of life back to you.
5. Define a New Communication Code
If you must interact, do it from the observer seat:
• Don’t absorb emotion.
• Keep messages short, factual, and neutral.
• End the exchange when you sense emotional pull.
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🌹 Inner Reminder
Love does not drain you — it expands you.
When contact repeatedly contracts your energy, it’s a sign to step back and restore alignment.
You’re not rejecting him; you’re choosing self-respect and truth.
If you need help, don’t Hesitate to reach out, I can meet with you in free 15 minute consultation first:
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