Matchmaker May

04/21/2026

Many people assume dating expectations are the same everywhere, but culture often shapes what truly matters in a relationship.

For many Asian women, long-term thinking, emotional stability, and shared direction are key, which is why aligned expectations often lead to more natural and meaningful connections.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

04/20/2026

Engaging the services of a matchmaker well-versed in the cultural nuances between various Asian countries is crucial. If you are interested in learning more about women from other Asian nations, contact Matchmaker May.

The entry of May Bugenhagen, founder of Two Asian Matchmakers, into matchmaking began as a response to a personal realization about the gaps in modern dating.

04/20/2026

Self-development may not always feel like a direct path to success. However, consistently investing in yourself builds a strong foundation for future achievements. It's about growing your skills and mindset over time.

04/19/2026

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗱𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝘁 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱?

In this episode of The Asian Dating Podcast, I speak with matchmaker Hayley Hurst about what’s really happening in modern dating, and what most people are getting wrong.

One of the most important insights:

The strongest connections don’t come from checking boxes. They come from conversation, presence, and how someone makes you feel.

𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:
• Why communication skills matter more than physical traits over time
• The truth about dating app algorithms and why swiping on everyone doesn’t work
• Why being active on Wednesday and Sunday can improve your results

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗲𝗻 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴:
• Frustrated with dating apps
• Unsure how to meet the right person
• Tired of repetitive, unproductive dates

This conversation will help you approach dating with more clarity and intention.

𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkqiyPL_WM0&list=PLjlshvWIoJ0lG-Dew0rkEmtcclvk-d69D&index=4

04/18/2026

Successful men often assume their careers make dating harder, but the same qualities that drive success: discipline, reliability, and long-term thinking, are what build strong relationships.

The real challenge isn’t who you are, but meeting someone who genuinely values those traits.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

04/17/2026

Successful men are used to operating with clarity and structure, yet dating often feels random and inefficient, leading to frustration over time.

A more intentional approach through curated, private introductions can create a clearer path toward meaningful connection.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

04/16/2026

Most people make dating harder than it needs to be.

One of the biggest shifts we talked about in this episode?

𝗦𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 “𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆” 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘀𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗹𝘆.

When you remove pressure, the connection becomes more natural.

In this conversation with Wayfinder Life Coach Tricia Rose Stone, we explore how dating becomes easier when you change the lens through which you see it, from pressure and perfection to openness and curiosity.

𝗜𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲:
• Why dating is a learning process, not a performance
• A simple icebreaker you can use anywhere: “Do I know you?”
• Why practicing small conversations builds real confidence over time

𝗜𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝘃𝗲 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗲𝗹𝘁 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:
• Dating feels overwhelming
• Conversations feel forced
• You’re putting too much pressure on yourself

This episode offers a simpler, more intentional approach.

Especially for busy professionals who value meaningful relationships, sometimes the most powerful shift is learning to show up with ease instead of expectation.

𝗪𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗹𝗹 𝗲𝗽𝗶𝘀𝗼𝗱𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S2p7BZ1Aq4c&list=PLjlshvWIoJ0lG-Dew0rkEmtcclvk-d69D&index=3

04/16/2026

We often judge potential partners based on initial ideas about age, background, or interests. But what if a deep connection is waiting just beyond those assumptions? Great conversations can bridge any gap.

04/16/2026

Successful men don’t struggle with opportunity; they struggle with time.

What feels like a dating challenge is often an inefficient process that doesn’t match how they operate.

A more intentional, structured approach creates clarity, saves time, and leads to better outcomes.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.

04/15/2026

There's a misconception about dating apps. Many profiles aren't real—they're AI or chatbots. Set realistic expectations, because what you *think* you can get isn't always reality. One company owns them all and controls the algorithm.

04/15/2026

Taking off shoes and bringing a gift. Etiquette is important. When you visit someone's house, never go empty-handed; a thoughtful offering shows respect. Even something small makes a difference. Manners

04/15/2026

In business, strategy and guidance are expected, yet in dating, many are left navigating without structure.

For those who value clarity, discretion, and intentional outcomes, a more thoughtful, curated approach can make all the difference.

If you’re ready for a more intentional approach to dating, you can schedule a private consultation through the links on this page.