04/23/2026
It’s National Infertility Awareness Week and I want to talk about it.
We had two losses before our oldest daughter. The first ended at 8 weeks. The second made it to 16 weeks – then a Turner’s syndrome diagnosis, and then she was gone before we even had time to process what that meant.
When our third pregnancy came, I couldn’t feel excited. I just kept waiting. Behzad would squint at every ultrasound screen and I would look away, both of us praying it would stick.
She made it. And then Mina came along. And I am so aware every single day of how much grace brought us here. And how that grace doesn’t always look the way we expect it to. And it is not a reflection of who deserves it.
If you are in the waiting right now, this is for you. From someone who has sat exactly where you are and knows how heavy and lonely it can be.
You are more than this chapter. 🧡
If someone in your life is going through loss or infertility, send this to them – they are seen.