Banyan Therapy Group

01/20/2026

APSATS has been a powerful part of our professional and personal journey, and we are
honored to be presenting at the APSATS 2026 Conference: Together We Rise! If you’ve
been longing for a place to learn, connect, and restore alongside others doing betrayal
trauma work, this is for you. Join me in Dallas February 4-6, 2026! Find details and
registration at www.apsats.org.

01/06/2026

Big news: Our very own Dan Drake will be speaking at the first-ever in-person APSATS Conference 2026: Together We Rise in Dallas, February 4–6! Come for cutting-edge training, somatic and
experiential healing opportunities, and a restorative environment created for our
community. Save your seat now by registering at www.apsats.org.

12/14/2025

What happens when men are the ones betrayed by s*x addiction?

In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattoune to unpack a topic rarely discussed — male betrayal trauma. Through his book A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, Adam gives voice to men who’ve been silenced, shamed, or overlooked in conversations about infidelity and healing.

https://youtu.be/tXebBpHbtfI

What happens when men are the ones betrayed by s*x addiction?In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim ...

12/09/2025

When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express anger without going into rage.

You’ll hear honest stories and professional insight on:
Why anger feels powerful in the moment but hollow afterward
How men often feel their anger isn’t validated
Healthy ways to express and release rage without letting it consume you
The importance of writing, processing, and releasing emotional energy

https://youtu.be/VvhNKYEJbtM

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When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express a...

12/04/2025

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women?

Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner.

Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal trauma experience.

Women usually over-function during the BT experience especially earlier in the journey.

https://youtu.be/4Il54DvyLWk

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women?Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner.Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal t...

12/02/2025

New quick conversations episode has been released. S*x addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about.

https://youtu.be/CJPvVxKCEUg

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S*x addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about.Subscribe for more powerful discussions on healing...

11/11/2025

In this episode of Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships, Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck joins Dan Drake, Jeanne Vattoune, Tim Stein and Wendy Conquest to break down the reality of betrayal trauma anger, why it shows up, how it unfolds over time, and what tools can help process it.

Whether someone is facing infidelity, broken trust, or betrayal in relationships, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for navigating one of the most difficult emotions in healing.

👉 If you’ve ever felt like your anger after betrayal makes you “crazy,” this discussion will remind you: you’re not crazy, you’re angry, and you should be. The key is learning how to process it with compassion and strength.

Watch the full episode now: https://youtu.be/f6gNYZcuFXM

Anger after betrayal can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even “out of character.” In this episode of Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships, Dr...

11/05/2025

In this episode, we explore the complex impact of s*x addiction on relationships, focusing on the grief, loss, and emotional struggles faced by betrayed partners. Unlike addictions to substances like alcohol or drugs, s*xual betrayal carries unique challenges, affecting both the addict and their partner on deeply personal levels.

Have a question for the team? Email: conversations.sar@gmail.com

In this episode, we explore the complex impact of s*x addiction on relationships, focusing on the grief, loss, and emotional struggles faced by betrayed part...

11/04/2025

11/03/2025

In this episode of Conversations on S*x Addiction and Relationships: Partner Wants to Have S*x and S*x Addict Doesn't

We explore the painful dynamics of betrayal trauma, intimacy anorexia, avoidance, childhood wounds, entitlement, and fear that often lie at the heart of these behaviors.

👉 Whether you are navigating betrayal, supporting someone in recovery, or simply curious about intimacy dynamics, this discussion provides valuable insights into the complexity of s*x addiction, emotional avoidance, and relationship repair.

Youtube - https://youtu.be/fmPAIQWTcCA

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In this episode of Conversations on S*x Addiction and Relationships: Partner Wants to Have S*x and S*x Addict Doesn'tWe explore the painful dynamics of betra...

10/30/2025

Goal: to learn how partners and disclosers experienced disclosure when a third party was present (therapist, coach, clergy, family member, friend, etc.)

Online survey takes approximately 15 minutes

For more information please go to
🔗 https://www.research.net/r/disclosuresurvey

This study has been approved by the AIUS Institutional Review Board.

10/28/2025

New quick conversations episode: Why Some S*x Addicts Withhold S*x: Understanding Intimacy Anorexia & Betrayal in Marriage

In this episode, we dive into a listener question about a s*x addict who withholds intimacy while engaging s*xually with others. Many partners struggle with ...