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03/07/2026

Anger is often a secondary emotion — a signal pointing to hurt, fear, or unmet needs.
In this clip from Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships, we explore how to work with anger instead of suppressing it or letting it escalate — and how doing so can strengthen connection rather than fracture it.
Listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts

03/05/2026

Misattunement is one of the most common — and most overlooked — disruptors of connection.
When partners consistently miss each other’s emotional experience, trust and safety begin to weaken.
In this episode of Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships, we explore how misattunement develops and the steps required for repair and re-attunement.
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03/03/2026

Six things that quietly destroy relationships… and how to heal them.
If you’ve ever felt the slow drift, the tension you can’t name, or the arguments that never fully resolve — this episode is for you.
🎙️ Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships
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03/02/2026

Authenticity isn’t oversharing.
It’s alignment.
In this episode of Conversations on S*x, Addiction, and Relationships, we explore what it actually means to show up fully — and why hiding parts of ourselves quietly erodes intimacy.
Listen on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts

02/01/2026

New Episode Alert! Dive into a powerful conversation on healing after betrayal with Dan Drake — author of Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After S*xual Betrayal and expert on therapeutic disclosure and relational recovery. Whether you’re navigating betrayal yourself, supporting a loved one, or curious about what authentic healing actually looks like, this episode breaks down why truth-telling matters and how it lays the foundation for trust, safety, and intimacy.

Watch now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xW9EU97rNnI

Like, comment, and share to help someone who might need this today.

📖 Dan Drake’s Book “Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After S*xual Betrayal”: https://www.amazon.com/Full-Disclosure-Share-S*xual-Betrayal/dp/10952776...

01/27/2026

Healing after betrayal can feel like an emotional rollercoaster — exhausting, confusing, and scary.
That’s why the Betrayal Healing Conference exists.
This free, online event is happening NOW! (Jan 26–30) brings together 30+ experts, including our very own Dan Drake, to offer guidance, clarity, and real support for people healing after betrayal…and I’m honored to be one of the speakers this year!
Register for free here: https://betrayalhealingconference.com

01/20/2026

APSATS has been a powerful part of our professional and personal journey, and we are
honored to be presenting at the APSATS 2026 Conference: Together We Rise! If you’ve
been longing for a place to learn, connect, and restore alongside others doing betrayal
trauma work, this is for you. Join me in Dallas February 4-6, 2026! Find details and
registration at www.apsats.org.

01/06/2026

Big news: Our very own Dan Drake will be speaking at the first-ever in-person APSATS Conference 2026: Together We Rise in Dallas, February 4–6! Come for cutting-edge training, somatic and
experiential healing opportunities, and a restorative environment created for our
community. Save your seat now by registering at www.apsats.org.

12/14/2025

What happens when men are the ones betrayed by s*x addiction?

In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim Stein and Jeanne Vattoune to unpack a topic rarely discussed — male betrayal trauma. Through his book A Man’s Guide to Partner Betrayal, Adam gives voice to men who’ve been silenced, shamed, or overlooked in conversations about infidelity and healing.

https://youtu.be/tXebBpHbtfI

What happens when men are the ones betrayed by s*x addiction?In today's episode, author and therapist Adam Nisenson joins the Dan Drake, Wendy Conquest, Tim ...

12/09/2025

When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express anger without going into rage.

You’ll hear honest stories and professional insight on:
Why anger feels powerful in the moment but hollow afterward
How men often feel their anger isn’t validated
Healthy ways to express and release rage without letting it consume you
The importance of writing, processing, and releasing emotional energy

https://youtu.be/VvhNKYEJbtM

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When betrayal strikes, it’s not just pain, it’s the kind of anger you’ve never felt before. In this episode, the panel talks about how to feel and express a...

12/04/2025

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women?

Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner.

Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal trauma experience.

Women usually over-function during the BT experience especially earlier in the journey.

https://youtu.be/4Il54DvyLWk

Is betrayal trauma really different for men and women?Most men do not come into therapy later rather than sooner.Men feel isolated for most of the betrayal t...

12/02/2025

New quick conversations episode has been released. S*x addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about.

https://youtu.be/CJPvVxKCEUg

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S*x addiction takes its toll on the addict and the partner. Listen in for physical symptoms to know about.Subscribe for more powerful discussions on healing...