04/17/2026
I've been reflecting on how the ancient mandate of lead, provide, protect has lost its balance in today’s dating culture.
I see that while many men embrace the call to lead, the reciprocal duties of follow, nurture, and respect are being ignored, turning what should be a partnership into an unfair demand.
I've observed that in America, unlike in Central Europe, this imbalance leaves men feeling dismissed and unvalued as they are pushed to act against their true nature.
I believe that returning to a model of mutual responsibility—where masculine and feminine virtues support one another—is essential for restoring genuine, fulfilling relationships.
The dating recession isn't caused by men who refuse to lead. It's caused by women who refuse to follow.