Destinee the Medium

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From a very young age, Destinee has gone through many challenging obstacles in her life in regard to her mental health and she was statistically aligned to "fail". She was born and raised in Rhode Island to two teen parents who did not get along and was living in a dysfunctional household. Her father was battling a heroin addiction while her mother worked tirelessly to keep the family afloat financially in their tiny apartment. When she was around 8-9 years old, her parents split up, and shortly after that her Mom was diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma with a successful chance of living at 30%. This set the tone for the rest of Destinee's life and for her mental health. She spent her childhood having to be an adult being a caregiver to her Mom while also balancing her education (which she struggled with) and trying to enjoy life as a child. She experienced bullying by many of her peers growing up and often felt alone and isolated. She faced bouts of severe depression, suicide, and anxiety into her adulthood and also a lot of identity issues. In early 2017, Destinee was diagnosed with ADHD. This diagnosis was, in a sense, "relieving", as it helped her start to understand herself more in-depth and it also answered a lot of the questions and concerns she had about herself. Despite the educational struggles, Destinee was able to successfully receive her Bachelor of Arts in Psychology with a Minor in Biology in 2018 from Colby-Sawyer College. As of 2023, she has been in counseling for almost 10 years to help find healthier ways to deal with her trauma and triggers she learned into her adulthood. She recently had a "quarter-life-crisis" in late 2022, which "woke" her up and inspired her to become a Public Speaker. She wants to help others who have faced similar life struggles and trauma find the peace that is possible within themselves. It seems like an impossible bridge to cross when your mind is in chaos and life isn't going the "way it's supposed to", but it is possible to find the peace and serenity that YOU DESERVE so you can CHANGE YOUR LIFE!

I used to chase butterflies and dream in pink frills. I lived in the clouds - wild, free, and full of light. Then, one d...
08/05/2025

I used to chase butterflies and dream in pink frills. I lived in the clouds - wild, free, and full of light. Then, one day, everything changed. The laughter faded. Joy turned into survival. Childhood disappeared in the quiet.

This is the story I’ve never told in detail… until now.

Read it on Substack - link in my bio ✨

It’s probably been about 3-4 years since we last visited Clifty and let me tell you, it was a struggle 😭😭The past few ye...
08/03/2025

It’s probably been about 3-4 years since we last visited Clifty and let me tell you, it was a struggle 😭😭

The past few years, I had been dealing with back and foot issues so I had to put hiking and trail exploring on a long pause. But I’m so glad to be back ❤️❤️❤️

Meet me in the woods ~

I’ve carried a silent weight for years-anger, resentment, the need to be understood.I hid it well. Until I couldn’t.Now ...
07/31/2025

I’ve carried a silent weight for years-anger, resentment, the need to be understood.

I hid it well. Until I couldn’t.

Now I’ve let go.
Not for them-for me.

I’ll be back.
Lighter. Louder. Unapologetic.

Read the full story. Linktree in my bio.

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎Sam CorcoranDrop a comment to welcome them to our community,
06/18/2025

Big shout out to my newest top fans! 💎

Sam Corcoran

Drop a comment to welcome them to our community,

Have you ever wondered why setting boundaries feels so uncomfortable — even when you know you need to?For sensitive wome...
06/17/2025

Have you ever wondered why setting boundaries feels so uncomfortable — even when you know you need to?

For sensitive women, especially those on a spiritual path, the struggle runs deeper than people-pleasing. There are hidden patterns, energetic dynamics, and soul lessons at play.

This post explores the unseen reasons behind your boundary fatigue — and offers clarity to those who’ve always felt “too much” or “too responsible” for others.

When you’re ready to go deeper into this work, I offer 1:1 spiritual counseling sessions to support you in reclaiming your energy, voice, and inner peace.

✨Inquiries and bookings via DM or link in bio.✨

Sometimes fear doesn’t mean stop—it means you’re standing at the edge of a powerful shift.If you’ve been feeling nudges ...
06/06/2025

Sometimes fear doesn’t mean stop—it means you’re standing at the edge of a powerful shift.

If you’ve been feeling nudges from Spirit, emotional triggers, or a deeper urge to share your voice, it’s not random. You’re being guided to release what no longer serves and rise into who you’re here to be.

These signs are invitations—not warnings. You’re not broken or behind. You’re being prepared to embody your purpose more fully.

If this resonates, spiritual counseling can support you in grounding these shifts and moving forward with clarity and truth.

Comment “GROUNDING” below if you feel like this reminder needed to find you today ❤️

For months now I have been dealing with this inner “frustration”. (I don’t really know what to call it exactly, so that ...
06/02/2025

For months now I have been dealing with this inner “frustration”. (I don’t really know what to call it exactly, so that word will suffice.)

I feel “frustrated” because I am not exactly where I want to be, but I’m also not in a terrible place either. In a sense, I also feel hints of “depression” without it being fullblown depression. The best way I can explain is is that I’m out of alignment with how I live my life & my purpose.

This has caused me to focus inward a lot more and to really consciously review what I am doing & taking in everyday & if that is something that aligns with me or not.

It finally dawned on me that I’m just not taking enough care of myself & I have been spending way too much of my free time doom scrolling which has been causing me to feel trapped in this cycle. (AKA. My ADHD brain loves cheap dopamine & feels lost without it..)

What I haven’t been doing as much is Creating.

But Creating isn’t just about painting, writing, or doing crafty things. Creating is also about how you take action & show up in the world. It’s about making consciously aligned decisions with the life you want to live for yourself. It’s about showing up as your authentic self & living without limitations.
& I have been lacking there.

My mind still wants to fall back to old beliefs, behaviors, & patterns that don’t align with the new future that I want for myself. I’ve needed to intervene in a lot of my own thoughts & get out of that cycle to create a new & more uplifting one.

The transition period from old to new takes time when it comes to rewiring your own brain & it will often feel scary & uncomfortable. But it will be %1000 worth the discomfort.

Since I’ve had this realization, I’ve taken more of my time away from online & I started to create a schedule for myself to keep me on track. I’ve also started exploring new opportunities to keep my curiosity alive & my motivation strong.

If there is one thing I’ve learned through all of this frustration, it’s that you can choose to change your life whenever you want. You just have to get sick of all of your own BS. 😂😅

Come back to it everyday and say these affirmations to yourself ✨❤️ Don’t forget to also take aligned action daily 🤗    ...
05/29/2025

Come back to it everyday and say these affirmations to yourself ✨❤️ Don’t forget to also take aligned action daily 🤗

I had to redefine my relationship with “God” in order to do this work. For many years, saying I believed in “God” made m...
05/13/2025

I had to redefine my relationship with “God” in order to do this work.

For many years, saying I believed in “God” made me uncomfortable. It instantly reminded me of the torturous days in private school and the uncomfortable church services I would attend from time to time.

I always believed in a higher power, but calling it “God” made me feel out of line and out of touch because it reminded me of traditional bible teachings back in private school (that I did not fully align or agree with) and also the many days of being bullied by others who were supposed to be “God’s Children”. 🙄🙄

I had to get comfortable with redefining my relationship with “God” when I started my spiritualism journey. In order to work in mediumship and healing, it is very important that you believe in some form of “God” or higher power or even Creator, because you use this higher power’s energy to channel spirit’s messages and healing energy through you.

This has taken some time to get used to. And quite honestly, coming to terms with calling myself Reverend has been taking some time getting used to as well. 😅 I never in a million years thought I would be here.

But what I have come to love so much about this journey is that it doesn’t matter what your religious beliefs are, what gender you are, or what sexual orientation you identify with. It also doesn’t require you to give up any parts of yourself or your personality to become this role (I can still go to rock and metal concerts HELL YEAH) 🤘🏻🤘🏻🤘🏻

It also does not include any fear-mongering, judgement, or any cult-like mentality. No ifs, shoulds, or buts.

All that matters is Love, Purpose, and Intention.

I have never felt more aligned in my life than I do today ✨✨✨✨

After I quit my stressful job in real estate and had a major spiritual awakening in 2022, I started looking into entrepr...
05/12/2025

After I quit my stressful job in real estate and had a major spiritual awakening in 2022, I started looking into entrepreneurship and practicing ways to do It.

I knew I wanted to speak, and I knew I wanted to help people, but I struggled with my niche and what that would look like exactly.

I’ve taken a back seat on it to focus on what that was and what life had in store for me next. But last summer, I was drawn to taking a 4-day metaphysical course, and let’s just say, everything started to click. 🤣

Long story short, I have been studying and practicing mediumship, meditation, and healing for the past 8 months, and as of last weekend, I’ve officially become an Associate Minister of Spiritual Healing and Prophecy 🤗

Even though this journey is far from over, I’m ready to start diving into this new chapter of my life and make this a long-term commitment to my goals and dreams.

My website has been revamped and I’m officially ready to take the stage 🎤

www.destineemackey.com

We all have a story to share! Have the courage to show up & own it. ❤️
01/06/2025

We all have a story to share! Have the courage to show up & own it. ❤️

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