05/11/2026
For Mother’s Day we did a YES day. Whatever I wanted to get into my guys made it happen. They cleaned and fixed things around the house while I read a book and journaled. They walked in a botanical garden at a snails pace while I took pictures of every flower possible and spent at least 15 minutes staring out at a lookout. We sat outside at picnic tables eating tacos. At night we curled up and watched a show we’ve been binging (His Dark Materials on HBO…SO good!!!). It was the most relaxing, beautiful restorative day.
I’m so aware that this is my YES day in my 40s. It would’ve been different in earlier chapters of my life. Not too far off from this, but probably a lot more doing less being. Younger seasons of life, I felt an urgency to not miss out, to soak up the world, to have big experiences that broke me open and helped me to feel like I’m in the pulse of something vibrant and powerful.
I still love a good day walking on cliffs over the ocean and taking in an art exhibit. But I find in this season there’s more of an internal space that’s developed. There’s more spaciousness for being present and content in my life, taking profound joy in the people I love.
What would your YES day be?
How has it changed through the different seasons of your life? And where is it the same? Where can you find a thread that has existed the entire time? That thread is frequently a medicine we can return back to.