02/03/2026
Hot take: arguing isn’t the problem.
How you argue is where things get spicy 🌶️
One style brings you closer (eventually). The other has you fighting about something from 2017 that nobody even remembers correctly.
Good news? Conflict skills are learnable, and no, you don’t have to become a monotone robot who “uses I statements” 24/7.
Which one do you and your partner fall into more… repair mode or roast mode? 😅