Chandler Lowther, LPC

07/29/2025

I have had numerous parents tell me this exact phrase about why they are bringing their child to counseling. After getting to know the child and the situation better, it is made clear to me that the parent and the child are speaking different languages. The leading from the parent is often rooted in love, but it goes nowhere other than into another fight. It is really common for people to parent the way that they were raised, but our children are different than us, and need to be parented differently as well. Don't parent out of embarrassment; learn your child's language so you can crack the code and build the relationship that you have been longing for.

07/25/2025

Although I can see my clients making progress by tracking their goals, I cannot put into words the way it makes me feel when they choose to share reviews of their experience. I was aware of progress, but she opted to share her heart after dealing with infertility and loss. Thank you for allowing me to share your kind words

07/22/2025

They can love their backpack, new pens, and pencil pouch and STILL hate the way they feel at school. No new supplies or clothes are going to change that. Get them the supplies they need; self-regulation and coping skills.

07/16/2025

Just a little something about me
I will always and forever see kids and teens, but mamas hold a special place in my heart.

07/10/2025

Giving your child the tools to know who they are and what they believe about themselves is a gift and skill that many adults have not mastered.

07/07/2025

If you’ve ever experienced birth or are close to someone who has, you know that the hormone shifts and drops are HUGE! Especially in the beginning.

I recently had a new mom ask me how to tell the difference in “the baby blues” (aka mainly progesterone and estrogen hormones that have dropped significantly because of birth) and postpartum anxiety or depression or a combo of both.

Here is the key: TIME! How long have you felt this way? If the answer is longer than two weeks, you need to consider finding someone to talk to. Feeling this way is incredibly common but it does not have to be your normal.

If you are unsure or worried that this is what you’re experiencing feel free to message me.

Mamas usually take care of everyone else before they consider themselves. Make sure you put your oxygen mask on so you can then help others secure theirs❤️

06/26/2025

I am officially trained in Perinatal Mood Disorders ladies and gents!

The struggles of pregnancy/postpartum, loss, infertility, and perinatal mental health disorders are just a few of the topics I received training on through Postpartum Support International.

After the birth of my first child in 2022 I was shocked at the lack of care new moms and their families receive/expect when they are in the middle of one of the biggest transitions in their lives. Support like this doesn’t have to be a secret society that nobody really talks about. It should be normalized and talked about so families realize they don’t have to accept things as “this is just how it is” or suffer in silence. “Bounce back” culture can make you feel like you are failing when really you are not alone, you are just one of the people experiencing this season that doesn’t know it’s common, and you should seek help.

The mental health of a mother directly impacts the health of her family and children. Don’t just seek help for yourself- do it for those that depend on you❤️

This is specialized care and I hope providers and supports continue to grow in our world and little community. If you have questions feel free to private message me!

06/14/2025

If this thought overwhelms you feel free to message me! Applying for college and scholarships is a lengthy process that starts WAY before a students senior year.

06/10/2025

Toying with an idea... please leave a comment below if you would be interested. Share with your friends!

06/06/2025

06/04/2025

And how to actually navigate the meltdown properly

02/21/2025

Moms-
what is the best advice you've ever been given? Please share in the comment section. I will start:
"You can be incredibly grateful and overwhelmed at the same time and that does not make you a bad mom"

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