11/24/2025
Why you quit after 2 weeks (and how to fix it).
Most Dads don’t stop training because of laziness or lack of motivation. They stop because their nervous system becomes overwhelmed.
Motivation is chemically driven—dopamine + adrenaline.
Those peak in week one. Then stress, sleep, work, and schedule friction start pulling you in the opposite direction.
Your brain shifts into energy conservation mode, also known as cognitive load. When cognitive load rises, the nervous system pushes you back toward the path of least resistance—comfort, not effort.
This is why even small disruptions feel massive.
Here’s how to break the cycle:
1️⃣ Lower friction
Shorter workouts, fewer exercises, simple structure.
Your brain wins when it doesn’t need to negotiate.
2️⃣ Build identity-based habits
The nervous system commits to identity, not outcomes.
“I’m a dad who trains” is more powerful than “I want to lose weight.”
3️⃣ Use the 5-Minute Rule
Minimum effective consistency. Once you start, your nervous system shifts out of resistance and into action.
You’re not failing the plan. The plan just wasn’t built for a dad’s real life.
➡️ DM “CONSISTENT” if you want a plan that fits your schedule, your stress, and your goals.
And be on the lookout for a workout you can do from on Thanksgiving morning 😉