04/21/2026
Avoidance can often look like Humor in real life...
It can look like cracking jokes when things get tense, lightening the mood, or saying something funny when situations feel uncomfortable. In relationships, we can take on the role of becoming the “peacekeeper” and take responsibility for de-escalating conflict.
From the outside, it can look like you’re easygoing, fun, and just trying to keep things light. But sometimes, it’s actually coming from not wanting there to be conflict or tension… or feeling like things might fall apart if there is.
So you keep it light, even when something deeper is going on. Over time, you might feel on edge, like you're walking on eggshells, or losing yourself in your relationships. In therapy, we start to investigate what it might be like to stay connected to others without losing yourself in the process.
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~ Jordan
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