Martha Kauppi

Martha Kauppi Every therapist should talk about s*x in therapy.

09/10/2025

When one partner criticizes another, it can derail the healing process. So how can you, as the therapist, help your client reframe their complaint in such a way that it isn't so hurtful and derailing? I model that in this video.

09/05/2025

Sometimes as therapists, we have to push back on our clients' thought patterns. The predominant cultural narrative isn't always correct! In this video, I address anti-fat bias.

Question for all of my followers: When you imagine the practice of your dreams, what does it look and feel like?
09/02/2025

Question for all of my followers: When you imagine the practice of your dreams, what does it look and feel like?

08/29/2025

When someone is trying to or**sm for the first time, they experience pressure within themselves as well as, sometimes, pressure from their partner. All this pressure just makes it harder to reach or**sm.

"Agreeing doesn’t build trust; authenticity in hard conversations does." - Martha Kauppi
08/27/2025

"Agreeing doesn’t build trust; authenticity in hard conversations does." - Martha Kauppi

08/25/2025

In this video, I model how to address egregious behavior by a client without shaming them. It's very important to be firm but understanding, to continue to build that relationship with that client.

Therapists often ask me, “Is it even possible to bring back the spark once it’s gone?” The answer is a resounding YES. T...
08/22/2025

Therapists often ask me, “Is it even possible to bring back the spark once it’s gone?” The answer is a resounding YES. There is a path forward, and it starts with unravelling the years of stress, disillusionment, and disconnection that smothered the spark in the first place. I’ve got a short training on this exact topic: “Romance to Roommates: Rekindling the Spark.” So, if you’ve had clients with this issue (and who hasn’t?), check out the training here.
https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/romance-to-roommates

08/20/2025

"Your emotional experience, you could probably hold it gently or you could get really sticky with it and try to control it. What if you just try to hold this all very gently and let it unfold? Is it possible that you're okay?" In this video, I explore how you can approach changes and other kinds of stressful events in your life.

Heads up: this is the very last day to get 20% off my Consensual Non-Monogamy Level 1 training! Just use the code CNM1DI...
08/18/2025

Heads up: this is the very last day to get 20% off my Consensual Non-Monogamy Level 1 training! Just use the code CNM1DISCOUNT when you check out, and get instant access to my very robust guide to working with consensual non-monogamy.
https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/CNM-Level-1

Are you hoping to expand your scope and fill out your practice? Building the skills to work effectively with non-monogam...
08/14/2025

Are you hoping to expand your scope and fill out your practice? Building the skills to work effectively with non-monogamous clients is a fabulous way to set yourself apart in the field -- while making a real difference for a seriously underserved population. My Consensual Non-Monogamy Level 1 training is a substantial introduction -- and, when you're finished with it, you'll be qualified to join my CNM-focused case consultation group! This is the best time to enroll, because for just the next few days, you can get 20% off with the code CNM1DISCOUNT.

https://www.instituteforrelationalintimacy.com/CNM-Level-1

08/11/2025

What is the role of the hinge in a V relationship? Clear goals are crucial for defining this role and having it be successful.

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