Well Woman Christian Counseling and Community

10/03/2025

They may be children of God who have been used by him for many good things but their faulty and damaging theology also needs to be acknowledged

From the Orthodox Barbie archives:

[On the relationship between extreme and moderate forms of complementarianism]: “When it came to evangelical masculinity, the ideological extreme bore a remarkable resemblance to the mainstream. In the end, Doug Wilson, John Piper, Mark Driscoll, James Dobson, Doug Phillips, and John Eldredge all preached a mutually reinforcing vision of Christian masculinity—of patriarchy and submission, s*x and power. It was a vision that promised protection for women but left women without defense, one that worshiped power and turned a blind eye to justice, and one that transformed the Jesus of the Gospels into an image of their own making.” - Kristin Kobes Du Mez

From the book "Jesus and John Wayne: How White Evangelicals Corrupted a Faith and Fractured a Nation"

10/01/2025

“Well, I don’t want to be just like Jesus because he is dead,” my 5-year-old son blurted out one morning on the way to school. His deadpan delivery startled me. My theological brain wanted to jump in about resurrection and eternal life, but he had named something profound: We want to be like

09/30/2025

Godly union is sacred and holy… but let’s not confuse that with a situationship of unrepentant abuse, abandonment, and addiction. Upward and onward as we love our enemies and guard our hearts. Love doesn’t mean allowing evil when you can do something about it. I’ve hardly ever seen more confusion than I do among scripture twisters.

09/30/2025

Marriage matters to God—but people matter more.

God created marriage as a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. But Jesus didn’t die to save an institution—He died to save people.

He laid down His life to protect His sons and daughters. And He grieves when they are abused, violated, or humiliated—especially in the very relationship that was meant to mirror His love.

Scripture makes God’s heart unmistakably clear:
He defends the oppressed.
He holds leaders accountable for how they care for His sheep.
(See Ezekiel 34 and Jeremiah 23)

🕊️ This October, during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we invite you—churches, ministries, businesses, and organizations—to stand with us in truth and compassion.

We’ve created a free, practical Marketing Tool Kit designed to help you speak up, educate, and bring awareness to the realities of domestic abuse in faith communities.

🧰 This year’s updated kit includes resources for:
• Churches and ministry leaders
• Businesses and community organizations
• Individuals looking to advocate in their own circles

Because silence enables abuse.
But education, action, and truth-telling help set people free.

👉 Download the kit and be a voice for the oppressed this October. https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1aYR3ls98ogBs5NB1Yx1Xi3-4TzYUWjzu

09/30/2025

I’m tired of watching women get spiritually gaslit in the name of “biblical marriage.”

When abuse happens:

❌ “What did you do to trigger him?”
❌ “Have you tried submitting more?”
❌ “Maybe you’re not praying hard enough”
❌ “God hates divorce more than abuse”
✅ “This is wrong and it needs to stop”
✅ “Your safety matters to God”
✅ “Biblical love doesn’t look like this”
✅ “You deserve help, not judgment”

The same Jesus who flipped tables when people misused God’s house would flip tables over how His word has been misused to keep women trapped.

Your pastor’s bad theology doesn’t override God’s heart for justice.

08/05/2025

Could you or a friend use faith filled support or guidance on your personal healing and growth journey? Check out my profile and website below. I am now accepting new clients for virtual and in person therapy for groups and individuals. 🫶🏻

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Kelly Ray, Pre-Licensed Professional, Madisonville, KY, 42431, (270) 514-5397, You don’t have to carry it all alone. If you’re a woman of faith navigating anxiety, trauma, grief, or painful cycles of self-doubt—you’re not broken. You’re burdened. And healing is possible. I offer a Christ-c...

08/05/2025

Art by on IG 🎀 She’s redefining what it means to be rich, and honestly, we’re taking notes.

Why we love this piece:
Because it’s a reminder that real wealth isn’t in your bank account, it’s in every sunrise, every cup of coffee, every tiny bird that is LOVING your cute striped pajama pants. The soft neutral background and gentle pinks feel like a deep exhale after a chaotic week. This art feels like an actual hug for your brain: simple, sweet, and quietly powerful. More mornings like this, please.

07/29/2025

Come and join us 8-9. Tomorrow will be the last walking support group of the summer. Thankful for those who joined and the sweet time shared! Will soon be announcing a September Community Grow Group!

07/09/2025

Come join us 8-9 tomorrow🫶🏻

Hey Ladies! If you want to get those healthy endorphins flowing and that forward movement going in your life come join us!

07/01/2025

Meeting tomorrow 8-9. Always a sweet time❤️🙏👟📓✝️

Hey Ladies! If you want to get those healthy endorphins flowing and that forward movement going in your life come join us!

06/25/2025

“Young women are seeking communities where their voices are genuinely valued, their questions are engaged with thoughtfully, and their experiences are understood. If they perceive that their concerns are dismissed or their perspectives are marginalised, disengagement naturally follows.” – Christine Jolly

From: https://thewadrproject.com/2025/06/23/the-quiet-exodus-why-young-women-are-drifting-from-the-church-by-christine-jolly/