01/01/2025
So true!!
The next time you get triggered by your partner, see if you can get curious instead of reactive. Instead of saying to yourself “they’re out to get me!” ask yourself “what are they really trying to communicate to me right now? What are they really needing? To be heard? to know their needs matter? some connection time? to feel seen and appreciated……?” This doesn’t mean you have to push all of your own needs to the side or indefinitely tolerate poor communication…..but by giving some time and space to curiosity, you might find that those things improve on their own. ❤️