12/19/2025
The holidays can feel challenging after someone you love has died.
There’s so much pressure to show up, participate, smile, and “keep traditions going” even when your body, heart, and mind are saying otherwise.
Grief doesn’t follow a holiday calendar. There is no right way to navigate this season.
This Holiday Bill of Rights was created as a reminder that you don’t have to do the holidays the way you always have. You get to decide what feels manageable this year. You get to change plans. You get to step back. You get to honor the person who died in ways that actually feel meaningful to you.
Grief doesn’t follow a holiday calendar. And there is no right way to get through this season.
If you’re grieving, save this. Share it with someone who needs permission to do things differently. Let it be something you come back to when the expectations start to feel loud.
And if you’re looking for more support, check out The GRIEF Ladies Podcast and join us inside the GRIEF Ladies Community on Facebook — a private space for honest conversations, practical tools, and connection with others who truly get it.
You are allowed to take care of yourself, this season and always.