
11/20/2024
I wanted to share some thoughts about what's been happening the past couple months postpartum.
Becoming a mother is, put simply, hard. But it's the best kind of hard I have ever experienced. I have had really highs and really low lows and lots of humble pie in between. I think one of the hardest parts has been slowing down and resting and letting my body recover. As a practitioner in the health and wellness space, I preach recovery, rest and self-care to all of my clients everyday and having to take my advice has been close to impossible. I think it's because, for me, movement means control. I mean it's an illusion, there is no such thing as control, but moving my body has always felt like a way to conquer that. Movement is progress, productive, healthy, growth... All positive things. But none of that happens without the stillness and quiet moments, that is what I have learned and am still learning to embrace. And stillness and quiet are positive as well. They are not the enemy of movement. For example, when my baby boy is sleeping and quiet and still, he's growing 2.5 inches in a week. He's doubling his weight in a month. His progress and growth is literally happening in those quiet still moments. And so is mine.
But along with rest, recovery and self-care comes the need for a support system. And I couldn't be more grateful for mine. My husband is literally Superman, my sister and Mom are available 24/7 for chats, my brother plays Mario Party from across the country, and my Dad sends me motivational quotes like he did when I was playing field hockey in college 🥰 I can't get through any single day without them.
All this rambling to say, I have quite the new perspective on what it means when I tell my clients that rest is just as important as movement. And with a new perspective comes adjustment. I'm not sure what that will look like fully realized in my business but I do know I feel called to shake things up. So TBD 🧡
I also want to shout out the amazing women . I found them a few weeks ago to aid in my recovery process and they are breaking barriers for new moms trying to get back into their routine postpartum. Thank you 🧡