07/19/2025
The shadow knows what we hide from ourselves. In this riveting conversation, depth psychologist Andreau Charles returns to unpack the complex relationship between depth psychology, shame, and narcissistic personality disorder—offering insights that transcend popular psychology tropes and internet diagnoses.
Charles guides us through the four essential stages of Jungian psychotherapy: confession, where we acknowledge what we've been avoiding; elucidation, which contextualizes our experiences; education, providing psychological frameworks; and transformation, where split-off parts are reintegrated. "We cannot heal what we are avoiding," he reminds us, highlighting how the Jungian journey toward individuation requires confronting our shadow—those disowned aspects of ourselves we've rejected or repressed.
When discussing narcissism specifically, Charles provides a comprehensive breakdown of the nine DSM-5 criteria required for clinical diagnosis, from grandiose self-importance to arrogant behaviors. But what makes this conversation truly illuminating is his compassionate framing of narcissistic traits as responses to profound shame wounds. While true narcissists rarely seek therapy voluntarily, those with narcissistic wounding can find healing through depth psychological approaches like dream interpretation and active imagination—techniques that bypass ego defenses to access unconscious material.
Charles emphasizes the delicate balance required in this work: creating psychological holding that allows individuals to face difficult truths while building genuine connection. By "holding the tension of opposites" and embracing paradox, Jungian therapy offers a pathway not just to symptom reduction but toward psychological wholeness. Whether you're curious about depth psychology or seeking understanding about narcissistic patterns in yourself or others, this episode offers profound insights into the healing journey.
Listen now and discover how what we avoid most might hold the key to our psychological liberation. How might acknowledging your own shadow transform your relationship with yourself?
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