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09/26/2025
I’m 74. I don’t march in protests. Don’t argue politics online. But every Monday, I do something that keeps America huma...
09/24/2025

I’m 74. I don’t march in protests. Don’t argue politics online. But every Monday, I do something that keeps America human.

My name’s Walter. I’m 74 years old.
I don’t have much. A pension check, a rusty Ford, a one-bedroom walk-up that smells like radiator heat in the winter.

I don’t cook fancy meals. Don’t go golfing. Don’t even keep up with the news most days—it just makes my chest hurt.

But every Monday morning, I do one thing that, somehow, has rippled further than I ever imagined.

I pay for strangers’ laundry.

Not all of it. I’m not rich. Just one or two loads at the laundromat on Main Street.

It started three winters ago.

I’d gone in to wash my old flannels. Place was half-empty, the hum of machines steady like a tired heartbeat. That’s when I saw her—young, maybe twenty-five, baby on her hip. She dug in her purse, counting quarters, lips pressed tight. When she came up short, she bit her lip and pulled a onesie from the basket, like she was deciding which piece of clothing could stay dirty another week.

I don’t know why I did it. I just stood, walked over, and slipped a quarter into the slot. “This one’s on me,” I said.

She froze. Blinked like I’d spoken a foreign language. Then whispered, “Thank you,” so soft I almost missed it.

That night, I kept thinking about her. About how heavy the world must feel when even clean clothes are a luxury. And I thought about how many times I’d felt invisible since I retired, like the world had already moved on without me.

So the next Monday, I went back. Dropped a few quarters into a machine, taped a note to it:
Load’s on me. Stay warm.

Didn’t sign my name. Didn’t need to.

By the third week, someone had scribbled back on my note:
You saved me today. Bless you.

I kept going.

Every Monday, I’d bring a little baggie of quarters. Sometimes I’d pay for one load. Sometimes two. I never waited around to see who used them. It wasn’t about that. It was about the moment someone realized they weren’t alone in the world.

Word spread. Not because of me—I kept quiet—but because people talked.

One mom told another. A tired nurse on night shift posted on Facebook: “Someone paid for my scrubs tonight. Whoever you are, you kept me going.”

The local paper called it “The Laundry Angel.” I hated that. I’m no angel. I’m just an old man with a pocket of coins.

Then something happened I’ll never forget.

I walked in one Monday, and the machines already had tape notes on them. Different handwriting. Different words. “For the next one.” “We’re in this together.”

I stood there, holding my quarters, tears blurring my eyes so bad I could barely read. It had spread.

One evening, I came in late and saw a teenage boy—hood up, eyes tired—drop two quarters into a washer, then walk away without putting clothes in. I called after him, “Hey, you forgot your load.”

He looked back and said, “No, sir. It’s not for me.” Then he left.

That’s when I knew this wasn’t mine anymore. It belonged to the town.

Now it’s every Monday across three laundromats. Folks bring jars of quarters. A church group leaves rolls of them taped to machines. Even the mayor stopped by, slipped a $20 into the change machine, and said, “Guess I’m on the Monday crew now.”

And me? I still show up. Still tape my little note: Load’s on me. Stay warm.

Because here’s the thing.

We live in a country that argues about everything. Who deserves what. Who belongs where. Who gets to be seen.

But when someone pulls warm, clean clothes out of a washer they couldn’t afford five minutes ago? None of that matters. In that moment, they know one simple truth: somebody cared.

That’s all it takes. Not speeches. Not politics. Not endless shouting on TV.

Just quarters. And a quiet message taped to a machine:

I saw you. I know it’s hard. I’ve got you.

The world may stay divided. The noise may never stop.

But as long as the washers keep turning on Mondays, so does hope.
~~~Author Unknown ~~~

09/20/2025
09/10/2025

“The Last Time Without Knowing” ❤️⏳

Life has a way of moving so quickly that we rarely notice when something happens for the very last time.

There was a last time your child crawled into your lap to fall asleep.
A last time you tied their shoes before school.
A last time you carried them to bed after they dozed off in the car.

But none of us knew it was the last time when it happened.

There was a last time your parents waited at the door for you to come home.
A last time your dad changed the oil in your car.
A last time your mom packed a lunch just the way you liked it.

But at the time, it felt ordinary. Just another day.

The truth is, life is full of “lasts” we don’t recognize until they’re gone. And that’s what makes the right now so important.

The dinner table conversations. The hugs that feel routine. The quick “love you” before hanging up the phone.

One day, those will be the moments you’d give anything to relive.

So hold them closer. Stay a little longer. Notice the details — the laugh, the look, the sound of the voices you love most.

Because the last time will come quietly.
But the love you give today will echo forever. ❤️

Every couple of years, I come back to John Pavlovitz’s writing about buying bananas the day his dad died. If you don’t k...
09/07/2025

Every couple of years, I come back to John Pavlovitz’s writing about buying bananas the day his dad died. If you don’t know what I’m talking about… go look it up. It’s beautiful. And it hits me every single time… especially today.

Because 12 years ago I left Phil Jones Hospice House after losing my dad and I had to stop at Walgreens to grab medicine for Merritt, who was sick at the time.

I’ll never forget standing in line behind someone with a stack of coupons. One didn’t scan so the cashier called for a manager. They took their time, laughing and talking like it was just a normal day.

But my world had just stopped.

I remember thinking can’t they see that I’m breaking? That my hair still smelled like his hospice room. That my chest was cracked wide open. That I just needed to get home and fall apart.

But life kept going. I pulled in the driveway and my neighbor smiled and waved like everything was fine. And I remember wondering… How can everyone else keep living, when I’m standing here shattered?

Losing my dad wasn’t a peaceful moment. It was layered, complicated, heavy. I wasn’t just grieving I was holding the weight of what was, what wasn’t, and what would never be. Toward the end I was more of the parent I showed up when it was hardest. I carried things I didn’t know how to carry. And I’m still carrying some of it. I’m still processing all of it.

That Walgreens moment changed something in me..

But if I could wear a sign today it would not just say:
12 years without my dad, go easy.

It would say:
I’m not too much. I just love big. I feel deep. And I still want to be cared for the way I care.

It would say:
I try to show grace and mercy until I hit my limit… I carry a lot but I still show up.

It would say:
I’m trying to run a business, raise good boys, and love my clients well even on days when I feel completely empty. I’m trying to raise sons who lead with respect and live with integrity.

Even if you can’t see the signs there will be signs.

They might not be pinned to someone’s chest with words like:

“I’m grieving.”
Or “My marriage is falling apart.”
Or “I just lost my job.”
Or “My kid is battling depression.”
Or “I haven’t slept in days from the stress.”
Or “I don’t know how I’m going to afford groceries this week.”
Or “I’m holding on by a thread and nobody knows it.”

Pay attention.
Be a little bit kinder.
We’re all so wrapped up in our own pain, our past, our problems we forget that everyone else is carrying something too.

But what if we set our stuff down for just a second… and actually looked up? We might notice someone else who’s barely hanging on.

And maybe in that moment…
you’d both feel a little more seen.
A little more human…

And maybe it would start to heal us both.
Author unknown ~

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