11/26/2025
Lois Miriam Gau
Lois was born on September 23, 1931, to Martin and Ellen Lind at their farmhouse near Salem, SD. She had two older sisters and enjoyed her childhood on the farm, particularly going to country school through 8th grade and taking care of the family cats and dogs. Lois was very active in high school, church and 4-H activities. Her South Dakota roots remained near and dear throughout her entire life.
Lois always told people “I was baptized Lutheran, attended Baptist Vacation Bible School, and became active in the Catholic Church through my husband Sy.” It was never about the denomination of Christianity for Lois, but rather living her life in grateful response to God’s everyday love and faithfulness love and faithfulness. This spirit of gratitude guided and sustained her throughout her entire life. Lois earned her 2-year teaching degree from Augustana College in 1951, taught elementary elementary grades in Ivanhoe and Tyler, MN, worked for American Airlines in Chicago, married the love of her life Sy Gau in 1953, had five children by October 1960, and she and Sy moved their family ten times by 1968. Beside the everyday business of raising five children and supporting her husband’s demanding schedule, Lois met her goal to earn a BA from Mankato State before any of her children graduated college. It was always important to her to personally know and support her neighbors.
Together, Lois and Sy were very active in Sertoma, and when Sy passed away in 1996, Lois continued to serve this humanitarian organization until her death. She also actively supported the ministries of St. Teresa Catholic Church, helped many children and adults learn to read, and volunteered with Meals-On-Wheels and at the Mapleton Nursing Home. Her gardens fed many people, her framed x-stitch decorated many walls, her baking satisfied many taste buds, and her great-grandchildren still dress their dolls in clothes she made with love. Lois loved to travel. Her travels found her in Virgin Islands, Swaziland, Tanzania, South Africa, Philippines, Germany, Amsterdam, Lesotho, Zimbabwe, Eswatini, Mexico, Hawaii, Seattle, West Coast, East Coast and every U.S. State between. In 2004, Lois married Marv, a high school classmate. Marv was a wonderful husband and travel companion.
Lois was the general contractor for the many remodeling projects in “her beloved big old Mapleton house” where she lived from 1968-2023. She and Marv then lived at the Lodge in Mankato for almost two years, and then Lois spent her last 2.5 weeks at Birchwood Cottages in Owatonna. Her family is grateful for the excellent care she received at these places and from St. Croix Hospice.
She is survived by her husband, Marvin Akkerman; one son, Pete Gau (Sam) of Forest City, IA; four daughters, Julie Jolivette (Tom) of Gordon, WI, Dorie Rieger (Matt) of Minneapolis, MN, Marcie Anderson (Cliff) of Owatonna, MN, and Kathy Gau of Eswatini, Africa. Lois took great pride in her 15 grandchildren, Roberta Groening (Heruy), Heidi Satre (Eric), Andy Jolivette (Sarah), Mark Rieger, Rose Walkenhorst (Adam), Luke Rieger (Maria), Laura Altiere (Ryan), Aaron Rieger (Hopi), Jess Edwards (Ben), Ethan Anderson (Cari Jo), Bethany Anderson, Alison Gau (Conor), Mara Anderson, Lucas Gau (Jillian) and Kyler Kirschbaum (Tim). And she was delighted by her 23 great-grandchildren, Claire, Abby, Natalia, Lily, Holden, Anika, Luella, Grace, Molly, Emmett, Alexis, Sofia, Simon, Amelie, Hugh, Brooks, Poppy, Brynn, Gavin, Eli, Juniper, Tyler, and Charlee. Beloved international family members include Maria, Licinia, Naoko, and Allard. Lois is preceded in death by her parents; husband, Sy; and sisters, Jeri & Joyce.
In lieu of flowers, the family encourages you to reflect on your interactions with Lois as inspiration to honor her legacy in whatever manner speaks to you. Any financial memorials will be divided equally between the Mapleton Sertoma Club and Kathy Gau’s work in Eswatini (www.globalgiving.org - Donate to Projects, type in Vusumnotfo in search bar)
Visitation will be held from 2-4pm, Sunday, December 7, 2025 at St. Teresa Catholic Church in Mapleton. Funeral service will be 11am, Monday, December 8, 2025 at church with visitation one hour prior. Burial will follow at Calvary Cemetery in Mapleton.
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