07/27/2023
A narcissist won't forget you, just because he/she doesn't feel or think like you doesn't mean he/she will. It seems that once the narcissist is done with you, tomorrow he/she will live as if nothing ever happened.
Think logically, if you've been with someone for a long time, sometimes years, sometimes decades, you can't forget about the other person in an hour or a night. Even though a narcissist has no empathy, no feelings and , no heart, he/she won't forget you. Remind yourself how morbidly jealous a narcissist is this jealousy never goes away in his/her mind you still belong to him/her even when you are no longer with him/her.
The narcissist will never forget what you provided him/her, what benefits were associated with you. A narcissist won't forget what he/she got from you, he/she won't forget how you made him/her feel.
Narcissist was and is addicted to it, he/she must replace it with something. The narcissist is addicted to control and therefore always wants to know what you are doing and where you are. A narcissist will never recover from his/her addictions and will never forget what gave him/her pleasure, what gave him/her dopamine.Just as an alcoholic says there is no problem, a narcissist says there is no problem. He /she doesn't want to notice the problem. Is like an alcoholic knows where the bottle is, remembers where he/she hid it. Narcissist remembers where he/she hid you, he/she knows where you are.
Just as the whole relationship with the narcissist was an illusion, so is it later. This is also an illusion whether it's another narcissist's relationship or the impression that leaving didn't make any impact on him/her at all. A narcissist is always trying to get revenge on you for what he/she did to you. Narcissist sees it differently he/she sees that you are to blame for everything because you didn't live up to his/her expectations.
It's hard for a narcissist to forget he's/she’s still connected to you in one way or another. He's/she’s attached to what you've given him/her, and suddenly it's gone. Often the narcissist believes his/her own lies, believes in an alternate reality that he/she has created. The narcissist deceives himself/herself because it is more convenient that way. It's more convenient to believe your own lies, it's more convenient to blame everything on you, it's more convenient to say you weren't good enough, it's more convenient to make you think you're the problem, that the narcissist suddenly has someone else who makes him/her happy.
See how huge the narcissist's efforts are to make you believe all this. If the narcissist was really happy, you'd never hear about him/her again. He/she wouldn't slander you behindyourback, he/she wouldn't have to prepare himself/herself to leave you.
The narcissist will never be happy, but he/she will try to create the illusion of happiness on the outside. Narcissus usually comes back because his/her new source of supply didn't live up to his/her expectations, the grass didn't turn out to be greener. The narcissist is still attached to you because what you provided was good, but he/she didn't appreciate it at the time. He/she may want it back for a while only to look for greener grass again, to chase after the happiness he/she will never find again.
The narcissist will not forget about you because he/she is terrified that you will move on with your life and be happy. He's/she’s afraid you'll forget about him/her.. The narcissist fears that you can get over what he's/she’s done to you, although he/she hopes that's not possible.
In the mind of a narcissist, everything is black and white. You are either great or hopeless. you are a loser or a winner. When a narcissist sees you doing well in life, he/she sees you winning, he/she thinks he's/she’s losing.
A narcissist doesn't leave because there's something wrong with you. The narcissist leaves because everything is wrong with him/her. Even when it seems that the narcissist is now very happy with a new person, in fact, he/she can always find a reason to come back to you. A narcissist can show up unannounced, he/she can suddenly message to you , any reason is good to make contact. Rejecting and replacing you with someone else is also an illusion, although it would seem otherwise. A narcissist will never tell you how he/she really feels or what he/she really thinks. He/she didn't do it when you were together and he/she won't do it now.
A narcissist will never forget you, he/she will never forget what you offered him/her how you benefited him/her, how you made him/her feel. You will hear from him/her again, the narcissist will try to make contact with you or get back to you.
You deserve peace and you deserve better. aa narcissist will never forget you, a narcissist will never forget someone who managed to get out, who managed to expose him/her, he/she will not forget about someone who is no longer affected by manipulation. A narcissist will remember you, but not in the way you want to be remembered. He/she will remember everything in different colors. you will be remembered as the worst. The narcissist will never forget it and you will never forget what he/she did to you and therefore you will not allow him access to you again.
