04/06/2023
😴 Nap Guilt
I can’t be alone here
When I used to lay down to take a nap or a rest
It felt impossible
🧑💻 I would literally be falling asleep at my computer
But the minute I laid down, my brain somehow woke up and began firing on more cylinders than I knew I had 🚂
I’m not alone, right?
Sometimes it’s hard to turn off
Even when you KNOW you should be resting and recovering
😓 It can feel like you should be doing something 24/7 to aid in your recovery
And, just like my failed nap times, when you take time to rest, a little voice in your head says “but you should be doing ____”
Your brain might say
- You should be vacuuming right now - this house is a mess! 🧹
- You could use this time to finish that training that needs to be done for work
- You should run to the store and pick up a card and gift for your coworkers birthday 💌
- Oh my gosh – how long has it been since Fido’s been to the vet? I should call them
Without fail, the moment you take time to rest is when your brain turns on and you suddenly remember everything that was on your to-do list from 2008
And then you start making yourself “in trouble” for forgetting things or not being “productive” with your free time 😤
This makes it pretty hard to actually rest, right?!
🏎️ Even if you are physically still, your mind and heart are racing
Which doesn’t bode well for recovery
You lead a busy life, there’s no doubt about it
🛌 But you should also listen to your body and be able to lay down for a rest if that’s what you are craving!
But Sarah, how do I just “turn my brain off?”
Here’s 1 thing that worked wonders for my nap game:
Block rest time into your schedule 🗓️
That’s it
Schedules and calendars run our lives – Google Calendar is my BFF
💯 We put work, events, date nights, kiddo activities, and EVERYTHING else onto our calendars
So why not time for rest?
When you schedule a block of time for rest, it ensures that nothing else is going on at that time
So there’s no “shoulds” or “coulds” that go through your brain 🧠
If you schedule a rest time from 2-3:30 on Tuesdays, then nothing else should be scheduled during that time!
Oh, it’s 2 o’clock on Tuesday? You should be getting your taxes ready in your free time?
🙅♀️ Nope. This isn't free time. It’s REST time. Block off another time for your taxes and eliminate the possibility of any shoulds and coulds
This felt a little silly for me at first
But now, I take time on Mondays to find a few rest blocks throughout the week – and it has been a total game changer
🥳 I no longer feel guilty for taking a nap
Drop a ⭐ below if this sounds like something you might try!