
08/20/2025
I love this example of pausing and waiting! ⏰ A lot of times I tell parents to ask and pause about 10-30 seconds (depending on the kid and age). It may feel awkward because we live in a society where responses are expected to be immediate. In many cases, our kids need time to process. 🧠 If we keep asking the same question, or ask a bunch of different questions kids may have a hard time answering and will just shut down. Notice how long they pause for before an answer is given 💙♾️