09/18/2021
Thanks to Cari Ebert for sharing this truth!
“Autism is a valid way of being human. My son is not broken and he does not need to be fixed. He is a blessing.
“Aaron needs supports, and modifications, and accommodations in certain aspects of life. But needing help doesn’t mean he should be considered a burden to society. With acceptance, society will see what a blessing he is. “
My son is autistic.
Yes, he has some struggles in life. But so do my neurotypical children. His struggles are different from theirs, of course, and parenting him has been a different experience for me and my husband.
When he was a toddler, I remember feeling overwhelmed because of the uncertainty that comes with the diagnosis.
People often ask me if I wish Aaron didn’t “have” autism. And the answer is no. He is autistic. It is part of his identity. If you take autism away, then who is left? Not my son.
Here’s what you should know. Aaron is so happy. He is the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person you will ever meet. Why would I want to change that?
Do I wish he didn’t have to struggle so much? I don’t think any parent wants their children to struggle. But, every struggle is a learning experience and helps him build problem solving skills, persistence, and resiliency. So there’s that.
When Aaron was first diagnosed in 2006, autism was considered a tragic diagnosis. As my husband and I have learned, that is not the case.
Autism is a valid way of being human. My son is not broken and he does not need to be fixed. He is a blessing.
Aaron needs supports, and modifications, and accommodations in certain aspects of life. But needing help doesn’t mean he should be considered a burden to society. With acceptance, society will see what a blessing he is.