11/17/2025
As I have been sharing here or there, this fall has been a bit hectic for me personally. My wedding, honeymoon, family things, health stuff.. you name it, it popped up.
I am incredibly lucky that most have been so understanding, accommodating and supportive over the past few months. More recently, though, I have to admit, Iām not feeling the same. Iām not sure if itās because my flexibility is less, if horses are just needing more immediate help, if it seems as though Iām not serving to my capabilities, if people really just feel as though Iām here to serve or if there is just a disconnect.
I know Iām not the only equine or regular professional out there, trying my very best, balancing all the things and trying to keep everyone satisfied. It absolutely shatters my soul, heart, hopes and dreams when I tell someone I am not available or my flexibility is limited (with good reason, I always give a honest reason!!) and they are very clearly giving me dissatisfied answers back.
So here is my reminder- just because we are professionals now, doesnāt mean we werenāt humans first. Just because we show up to serve you, your horse and the needs that are open, doesnāt mean we donāt have our own battles and needs we are facing when we get back in our cars. I PROMISE you, we want to be available, we want to help you, but we also need to help ourselves and our families. So please, next time your professional tells you they arenāt available or have a flexibility issue, be kind, I promise itās for a good reason!