
10/07/2025
last week, I talked about the window of tolerance and how being hype aroused can create some mental health symptoms we don't necessarily care for. Today, I want to talk more about some skills we can use to help us return to our window of tolerance.
Distress tolerance skills aren’t about avoiding hard feelings; they’re about training your brain to handle them without shutting down or spiraling. When you practice skills like grounding, paced breathing, or using your senses, you activate the prefrontal cortex (your “thinking brain”) and calm the amygdala (your “alarm system”).
The result? Your brain learns that you can ride out intense emotions safely, which builds resilience and makes stressful moments feel less overwhelming over time.
Distress tolerance is like exercise for your nervous system, the more you practice, the stronger your emotional regulation becomes.
Want to learn more about how to use distress tolerance skills? Let me know!