01/05/2026
Willpower feels like strength but it is actually the thing that is keeping you stuck.
When you resist an urge, your whole body is tense and tight and you are just holding on for dear life. And the moment you let go, you eat it anyway.
What actually works is learning how to allow the urge to move through you without eating it. That is a completely different experience and that is what builds the real muscle.
I break this down fully in episode 525. https://youtu.be/iBJ7hQxSpxg