Oakley_Twins_Journey

Oakley_Twins_Journey Eve and Ella's page to share updates on their ongoing Retinoblastoma treatment. Eve’s abdominal recovery is still ongoing, with slow improvements each day.

On January 1, 2018, Eve Oakley, beloved infant daughter of Nathan and Maryann Oakley, was admitted to Penn State Children’s Hospital (PSCH) Pediatric Intensive Care Unit with symptoms of lethargy and inability to eat. After her vitals were stable, she underwent exploratory abdominal surgery where a volvulus was found (a condition where a portion of intestine or bowel is twisted around itself, causing an obstruction). Once found, a portion of her small intestine was removed, with the remaining portions brought to the skin for colostomy and recovery. Eve also developed septic shock soon after as a result of the intense abdominal surgery, and remained in critical condition with life support for about 10 days. During this time, she was extremely puffy and swollen, with low organ function requiring numerous intravenous medications to keep her vital signs stable. By day 11, her kidneys began to rally and turn the corner, which led to her puffiness and swelling to subside. In addition to the abdominal surgery, Eve and her twin sister Ella were both recently diagnosed with Retinoblastoma (a cancer that forms in the retina of the eye). Ella was first diagnosed on January 15, 2018 with bilateral Retinoblastoma – one small tumor was found in each of her eyes. Her diagnosis and treatment is taking place at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia in coordination with Wills Eye Hospital. Ella began her first of six rounds of outpatient chemotherapy on January 18. Ella is currently at home and recovering from round one of chemo and its side effects. Eve was seen by an ophthalmologist at PSCH on January 17, at which the doctors at PSCH recommended transfer to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) to continue her abdominal recovery and begin treatment for the retinoblastoma. On January 18, she was flown via medical transport to the CHOP and was admitted to the NICU for recovery and treatment. Her chemotherapy treatment will begin soon once she is recovered and healthy enough to begin treatment. She currently has a colostomy bag for her waste, and the treatment plan is to eventually undergo surgery to reattach both sections of the intestine, however, it is unknown when this can occur with the prospect of chemotherapy treatment. On January 23, her breathing tube was removed and she is breathing 100% on her own. Her treatment and recovery will be continuing for quite some time. As you can imagine, this has been quite a shock for the twin’s parents. They have had their hands full with medical tests, doctors, multiple hospitals, insurance, travel, and care logistics. On top of that, Maryann has not been able to return to work and Nathan has only returned part time (two to three days a week). Since both children are now being treated in Philadelphia, we felt we needed to start something to help alleviate any financial stress so they can focus on treatment and healing. Any money donated will be used for medical expenses not covered by insurance, as well as travel and hotel accommodations since both children are now being treated in Philadelphia. Please keep both Eve and Ella in your thoughts and prayers and thank you for your support. We will be posting updates via GoFundMe and Facebook. No one fights alone and we feel so fortunate to have so many help us as we Rally for Ella and Eve!

10/21/2025

Life is a journey! Hence our name, OakleyTwinsJourney. I hated that name for our account for a very long time. I’m not even sure why I chose it. All it would do, is remind me of “cancer.”

But now I’m realizing how life really is a journey, not a race. And it’s what we make of it that counts. Therefore, myself and my family, are just trying to navigate through this journey, in the most beautiful and meaningful way that we can. ♥️♥️

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10/17/2025

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10/17/2025

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Fall Harvest on the Farm!  What a BEAUTIFUL day!! We had sooooooo much fun!! I literally just said to my husband, I do n...
10/05/2025

Fall Harvest on the Farm! What a BEAUTIFUL day!! We had sooooooo much fun!!

I literally just said to my husband, I do not know if I would’ve been able to do this 2 months ago!! Mental Health is soooooo important!! I was angry, sad, frustrated, and full of anxiety. Everything came to a breaking point, I never processed all of this. I entered myself into a program to learn, so much so, Nate took a leave from work. I’m feeling pretty good! Never be afraid to ask for help! Message me if all else fails 💕💕

I will put together a little video of our day. Next big appointment, will be the girls’ cancer scans at the end of this month. I’m in a better place to be able to process this.

That wagon was not easy to pull around 😫🎃😂

09/13/2025

So yeah, it’s been a lot. And I could feel that a breaking point in my mental health was imminent, however, I didn’t know how to handle it.

I wish I would’ve acknowledged it and done something about it sooner, but that’s not important.

What is important, is that I am fully committed to being the best version of myself and I am filling up my positivity bucket everyday. I always felt so alone, but I realized, I am far from alone. There are millions of people out there who struggle, I was just too blind to see that.

Some think that receiving help is a weakness. When in fact, it’s an absolute strength. Acknowledgement is such a positive part.

If anyone ever needs help with resources, I can try to help. It’s hard to do it in your own.

I miss the girls, but it’s only for a weekend. 💕💕

There’s also so much going on in the world, remember to give yourself some grace and take a deep breath.

First Day of School! Yesterday, I said how I was nervous about Miss Eve’s cochlear implant staying in place.  There’s an...
08/20/2025

First Day of School!

Yesterday, I said how I was nervous about Miss Eve’s cochlear implant staying in place. There’s an attachment we can get called a SnugFit. So I emailed our audiologist about getting one for her. Turns out, we had one all along, and didn’t even know it y’all.

When you get a cochlear implant, you also get an enormous book bag full of accessories. My husband and I went through the book bag so many times, familiarizing ourselves with the parts. We never saw the SnugFit because it was in a hidden area of the bag. 🤣🤣🤣

I found it this morning, so she wore the implant without the attachment to keep it secure on her ear. It was right before she was leaving for school, and we have to figure out how to attach it. There’s a video on how to do it, so we will add it this evening. Now, let’s just pray for a good first day and that the implant stayed in place. Sheeeesh.

I know we also have cancer scans approaching as well. I need to confirm the exact date. And, we go back to audiology every two weeks for cochlear implant mapping. This adjusts the sound appropriately and can take 6 months to a year to get it just right.

The girls were happy to go back to school. Eve usually doesn’t mind the first day, but after that, she’s done with it and cries. Hopefully, this year is better. ♥️

I work at the school as well, and Eve does like that. (Even though I often don’t see them, it gives her comfort). I start back on Monday. ♥️♥️

Happy Saturday! This week, we did back to school haircuts!  Their hair is so thick!  For a while, after chemotherapy, I ...
08/16/2025

Happy Saturday!

This week, we did back to school haircuts! Their hair is so thick! For a while, after chemotherapy, I wondered if their hair would ever grow back in, it took so long. And now it’s super thick and curly.

I know you are all wondering how Miss Eve is doing with her cochlear implant. It was a rocky go, I will tell you that. But, she is now adjusting well to it. We did a slow increase in the amount of time she wears it each day. And everyday, she goes a little bit longer. We are really proud of her!

They say it takes 6 months to a year to get it adjusted to where she needs it. So we pretty much go back to audiology every other week.

I will put a video together with us putting it on and how she does with it. She does ask for breaks from it, which if fine as well. I’ve been told it can sound like a robot in the beginning. It takes time for the brain to process and adjust.

Today is my birthday. We aren’t doing anything exciting. We just need a little calm and peace in our lives for today! ❤️

What I came across today in my group Meditation & Yoga. ♥️
08/12/2025

What I came across today in my group Meditation & Yoga. ♥️



Just letting you know, Eve’s surgery went well.  She is recovering nicely.  Lots of appointments coming up, with activat...
07/30/2025

Just letting you know, Eve’s surgery went well. She is recovering nicely. Lots of appointments coming up, with activation on August 8.

Things have been a little hectic around here.

I will update more soon!

Thank you for all of the messages, love, and support,

Be Brave!

Cheers to Nathan for being

Hey Y’all! ♥️♥️I have finally put together an Amazon Wish List for Eve’s recovery.  Yay!  So many of you were messaging ...
07/17/2025

Hey Y’all! ♥️♥️

I have finally put together an Amazon Wish List for Eve’s recovery. Yay! So many of you were messaging me about it, thank you! Her big surgery is on Tuesday.

Link:

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/GNWTSBHB6UUU?ref_=wl_share

I kind of blanked when making the list, so if you have any other ideas, please share below. I will also add things as I think of them,

I added a lot of gift cards too. Once she is up to it, I can take the girls out to do activities. As you know, she cannot swim, for quite some time afterwards, so I’m trying to add fun activities. Swimming is her absolute favorite activity, so I will find ways to distract her.

I found a cute little campground that has fishing and a fire pit to roast some marshmallows. They really like that!! It’s through , so also added some of those gift cards to the list.

Tomorrow, Grandpa and I are taking the girls to Dutch Wonderland for the day, I’m trying to get as much fun in pre surgery.

Love you all!

07/10/2025

I guess the video pretty much speaks for itself. Just another hurdle to overcome! We will continue to push forward, and create the most beautiful lives for our girls.

I usually struggle with debilitating anxiety in the mornings, however, I don’t have it while we are here. I get up, take out the dogs, water the plants, make the girls breakfast, and open the pool for the day. This is our vacation for the summer, and we are happy with that.

Eve will not be able to get her head wet for two weeks after surgery. So we are getting as much swimming in as possible, as it is her absolute favorite summer activity. Someone did say to place her hear under a sink, while laying on her back, to gently wash her hair. That person’s daughter also had cochlear implant surgery. I will discuss with the surgeon too.

Happy Summer ♥️♥️

06/30/2025

And with all that being said….lol.

After the implant is activated on June 8th, we will have to go back to the hospital every week to adjust the sound appropriately. In fact, it can take 6 months to a year, to get it to the correct levels.

Today a little boy asked her, “what are you even saying?” Ugh that pulled at my heart strings. See when she talks, it’s really like a mumble. I think she does it to try and fit in. ❤️

Hoping for all the success, strength, and hope. 💕💕

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OUR STORY

Ella and Eve were born on 12/19/2017 9:32 PM. Mom and Dad were thrilled with their new baby girls.

Eve’s Story

Ten days after birth, Eve stopped eating and was constantly crying. After speaking with multiple doctors, we decided to bring her into the emergency room. There, her vitals began to drop while many doctors and nurses rushed to stabilize her and save her life. She was quickly admitted to the pediatric intensive care unit and, after several hours and many medications, she was in stable condition.