Oakley_Twins_Journey

Oakley_Twins_Journey Eve and Ella's page to share updates on their ongoing Retinoblastoma treatment. Eve’s abdominal recovery is still ongoing, with slow improvements each day.
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On January 1, 2018, Eve Oakley, beloved infant daughter of Nathan and Maryann Oakley, was admitted to Penn State Children’s Hospital (PSCH) Pediatric Intensive Care Unit with symptoms of lethargy and inability to eat. After her vitals were stable, she underwent exploratory abdominal surgery where a volvulus was found (a condition where a portion of intestine or bowel is twisted around itself, causing an obstruction). Once found, a portion of her small intestine was removed, with the remaining portions brought to the skin for colostomy and recovery. Eve also developed septic shock soon after as a result of the intense abdominal surgery, and remained in critical condition with life support for about 10 days. During this time, she was extremely puffy and swollen, with low organ function requiring numerous intravenous medications to keep her vital signs stable. By day 11, her kidneys began to rally and turn the corner, which led to her puffiness and swelling to subside. In addition to the abdominal surgery, Eve and her twin sister Ella were both recently diagnosed with Retinoblastoma (a cancer that forms in the retina of the eye). Ella was first diagnosed on January 15, 2018 with bilateral Retinoblastoma – one small tumor was found in each of her eyes. Her diagnosis and treatment is taking place at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia in coordination with Wills Eye Hospital. Ella began her first of six rounds of outpatient chemotherapy on January 18. Ella is currently at home and recovering from round one of chemo and its side effects. Eve was seen by an ophthalmologist at PSCH on January 17, at which the doctors at PSCH recommended transfer to the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia (CHOP) to continue her abdominal recovery and begin treatment for the retinoblastoma. On January 18, she was flown via medical transport to the CHOP and was admitted to the NICU for recovery and treatment. Her chemotherapy treatment will begin soon once she is recovered and healthy enough to begin treatment. She currently has a colostomy bag for her waste, and the treatment plan is to eventually undergo surgery to reattach both sections of the intestine, however, it is unknown when this can occur with the prospect of chemotherapy treatment. On January 23, her breathing tube was removed and she is breathing 100% on her own. Her treatment and recovery will be continuing for quite some time. As you can imagine, this has been quite a shock for the twin’s parents. They have had their hands full with medical tests, doctors, multiple hospitals, insurance, travel, and care logistics. On top of that, Maryann has not been able to return to work and Nathan has only returned part time (two to three days a week). Since both children are now being treated in Philadelphia, we felt we needed to start something to help alleviate any financial stress so they can focus on treatment and healing. Any money donated will be used for medical expenses not covered by insurance, as well as travel and hotel accommodations since both children are now being treated in Philadelphia. Please keep both Eve and Ella in your thoughts and prayers and thank you for your support. We will be posting updates via GoFundMe and Facebook. No one fights alone and we feel so fortunate to have so many help us as we Rally for Ella and Eve!

02/05/2026

For Whomever Needs to Hear This Today! ♥️♥️

02/02/2026

Look at them go! lol!

We are still in Florida. We have left the magical world of Disney, and are now in St Augustine. It’s cold here, so we needed something indoors to do, so this was it.

While in Disney, the temp did stay around 70, I’m so grateful for that. We beat the cold front.

I have tons of amazing videos of Disney. I just haven’t been up to posting. I will probably start that up once we return home. It was an amazing time, and beautiful memories were made.

I’m still very much grieving the loss of Chee Chee. I hide that part from the girls. But, Eve talks about Chee Chee a lot, and I find that to be helpful. I love to talk about her. I’m also nervous to return home, and Chee Chee will not be there to greet us with her barks and tail wags. 😞😞 I also find it helpful to read all of your comments whom have related to this sadness.

Oh yeah, some asked if we got the disability pass for Disney. Yes, we did qualify for it Another thing to be extremely grateful for. Disney does have a more secure and strict disability requirement, but with the plethora of Eve’s medical concerns, we did qualify.

Ella & Eve really want to see the beach. Even though it’s frigid, we will go there tomorrow. We are really only a stone throw away. And maybe explore St Augustine.

♥️♥️

Thank you so much for all of the love!  I’ve received so many comments and an amazing amount of messages.  It’s hard to ...
01/27/2026

Thank you so much for all of the love! I’ve received so many comments and an amazing amount of messages. It’s hard to keep up!

I’d say this is the hardest thing I’ve ever been through, but we’ve been through so much, and there’s no comparison to the loss of a beloved pet! I loved her with all of my ♥️.

Ella is doing well! Eve cried when Chee dog left the house, and cried herself to sleep. It’s been hard to explain to Eve, what has happened. Chee Chee isn’t coming home. Sometimes, Eve thinks Chee Chee is at the doctor, or sometimes she asks when Chee will be back. She does, sort of, realize when Chee comes home, it will be in an Urn. I picked a beautiful one!

I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to stay by Chee Chee’s side when she passed, but when the time came, I sat right by her as she took her final beloved breath. She would’ve wanted it that way. I’m very heartbroken! And I will grieve this as long as my mind and body needs to.

Tomorrow, we board a flight to Florida. I’m hoping it will be a distraction for the girls and I. It’s just very difficult to process. I carry her blanket with me. ♥️

Thank you all so much, it’s helping!

Rest in Eternal Peace Chee Chee.  My heart is broken.  Our family’s hearts are broken.  Right now, I just want her back....
01/27/2026

Rest in Eternal Peace Chee Chee. My heart is broken. Our family’s hearts are broken. Right now, I just want her back. She was always by my side’, and will forever be by my side. I love you always and forever! 💔🌈💔

My Best Friend 🐕

01/25/2026

What an Amazing Gift this has been! We’ve been using it since November, and it has been so beneficial for both girls! This would be great for any families with children!

In the upper left corner, it counts down until big events! We used it to countdown to birthdays, Christmas, trips, etc. We put everything on the calendar!

We also use it for chore charts, weather checks, daily routines, and so on. We do not have the plan, because you can already do so freaking much with it!

Eve definitely dislikes dr appointments being up there. Ella always wants to know when Daddy will be home from work.

Eve benefits from visuals, and it helps her to communicate more! The possibilities are endless! 10/10, highly recommend!! Blessed!

If you want to check it out, I’ve added the 🔗 into the comments.

Stay Safe! Stay Warm! The snow ❄️ is coming! ♥️♥️

Skylight

Flu B for Ella.  I was a bit surprised, because everyone seems to have Flu A. When the girls get sick, instead of me wor...
01/23/2026

Flu B for Ella. I was a bit surprised, because everyone seems to have Flu A.

When the girls get sick, instead of me worrying or feeling miserable. I remind myself what we’ve been through. When the girls were suffering from chemotherapy side effects, I remember thinking, oh how I wish they could have “normal” sicknesses like every other child.

You know, despite being sick, Ella is in pretty good spirits. I’m wondering if that’s because they’ve been through so much worse.

Eve was very unhappy about going to school without Ella today, tears all morning. Eve also had an audiology appointment today down at the hospital, and she is fed up with Dr appointments. Can’t blame here there, she does have a plethora of appointments. Eve is in a supports classroom, so she’s not really with Ella all day. I think it’s just the comfort of knowing Ella is there. Eve will be ok.

Now, we were prescribed Tamiflu. The dr left it up to us if Ella takes it. I’m well aware of the side effects. The most common is nausea/vomiting. Then, that possible side effect of hallucinations. And it only really shortens the flu by a day or so. She’s in good spirits, so why risk making it worse? Let me know your thoughts. ♥️♥️

We leave for Orlando on Wednesday. My hope is Eve doesn’t get sick.

Happy Friday!

And a pic of Doc, we have 2 chihuahuas lol.

01/17/2026

Returning to work has been a blessing in disguise. But, here we are, my second year working in a school. Working medical mommy.

Children are miraculous little human beings.

And when I saw the parachute out, I knew it would be an amazing day!

01/16/2026

I received the results back pretty quickly on the MRI of Ella’s foot.

She has been experiencing pain in her left foot, and it swells up like a balloon for no apparent reason. We had an XRay completed, 2 spots lit up, so we needed to have an MRI done to get more details. Given her and her sister’s cancer history, we must always rule out a relapse, or spread.

The report was quite complex. But the doctor thinks it is consistent with a vascular malformation. This is an abnormal tangle or collection of blood vessels, that disrupts normal blood flow, causing pain and swelling, sometimes severe.

We have an appointment with an orthopedic surgeon coming up, who will further review the MRI, and we will go from there. I’m not yet sure what the treatment will look like, but Ella is scared it will be surgery. She’d almost suffer through unbearable pain then go through another surgery, but we will see.

As for placing the IV. Yes, it was extremely hard to find a vein to run the contrast. Some made the suggestion of the ultrasound. We are aware of ultrasound for a vein. I had requested it. However, the location we were at, did not have an ultrasound. What ultimately worked, was a butterfly needle.

I thought all facilities had ultrasound, but apparently not. I was sad, and Ella didn’t want to come back. I knew we needed the results, given the circumstances. So I prayed. And we were able to get the contrast in safely. I will always call ahead to confirm an ultrasound is available going forward. ♥️

We have lots and lots of appointments approaching. Nephrology for Eve’s blood pressure (she’s on BP meds), two hearing exams for Eve’s cochlear implant, cancer scans, and Ella’s orthopedic surgery visit. But, one day at a time y’all. ♥️♥️

Thank you for all of the positivity sent our way, it means so much! ♥️♥️. Love ya!!

01/13/2026

Phew. It does get lonely doing these things! But luckily, us girls (you, me, everyone), we can do hard things! 💕

01/12/2026

Just something we did together tonight. It was super simple and FREE! You know we on a budget over here lol!!

Also, many asked for an update on Ella’s MRI. I had trouble getting an appointment, the soonest they had was at the end of month. But, I did reach out to our medical team, and we had it moved up to this Tuesday.

Hope you had a lovely weekend 💕💕 Try the coloring pages on Crayola if you are looking for indoor activities 💓💓

Crayola

Happy 17th Birthday Chee Chee!This girl has been through it all!  Good Times & Bad. The passing of my Mom, toxic break u...
01/08/2026

Happy 17th Birthday Chee Chee!

This girl has been through it all! Good Times & Bad.

The passing of my Mom, toxic break ups, marriage, the birth of Ella & Eve (I don’t think Chee ever forgave me for that one lol), and so much more!

There used to be a time that I wouldn’t travel anywhere without her too. She even went on our Honeymoon!

Happy Birthday Girlfriend!! ♥️

01/08/2026

I laughed at myself. After recording this, I realized her cochlear implant was connected to her IPad.

See, you can connect cochlear implants directly to devices. Bluetooth. And Eve’s audiologist does request she connect directly to her IPad at least one hour a day. She can watch her kid shows or whatever. You know there’s no complaints from Eve on that request.

This allows for maximum input directly to her implant. She’s listening, which helps the brain to adapt to speech recognition. If that makes sense.

Anyways, she was connected during this video. But, with that being said, she did pretty good! She’s very excited about Chee Chee’s Birthday!!

Chee Chee is not in the best of health, as I’ve mentioned before. She has cancer and heart failure. This has been very hard for the girls, and myself. Yes, she has lead a long amazing life, but it’s been a difficult thing for us to process. Miss Eve doesn’t quite understand.

I will also provide another update on Ella’s upcoming MRI. ♥️♥️ That’s been tough to get it moved up. But, I’m working very hard on this aspect of the journey. 💕💕

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OUR STORY

Ella and Eve were born on 12/19/2017 9:32 PM. Mom and Dad were thrilled with their new baby girls.

Eve’s Story

Ten days after birth, Eve stopped eating and was constantly crying. After speaking with multiple doctors, we decided to bring her into the emergency room. There, her vitals began to drop while many doctors and nurses rushed to stabilize her and save her life. She was quickly admitted to the pediatric intensive care unit and, after several hours and many medications, she was in stable condition.